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RecordProducer Established Member

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Is it really possible for me to get a date without pursuing a woman at all? I'm trying a newer approach and that is to not ask a woman out at all. I'm going to wait for her to come.

 

I figure I can't go wrong with this approach since I'm not hurting any women by not pursuing.

Yes, it's possible. Pursuing doesn't get you a woman that doesn't want you, though. But if you feel that she likes you and you show her that you like her, the first kiss will come easily.
monkey00 Established Member

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I am 28 years old. I'm torn apart inside. Part of me is tired of being single and then part of me is afraid to approach women so I just don't do it. I feel like I have no choice but to be single.

 

If you're afraid of approaching women in a social setting...you could try speed dating. At least then you'll know you're in the same boat as everyone else. You could also give online dating a shot.

bobmeup2 New Member

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Its quite possible to get girls without doing anything....thats what I used to do....but your not going to get inundated with requests my friend....

 

All my previous relationships (im 26) have been near enough initiated by the woman...but none of them have worked out. When I finally decided to stop messing around and actually approach women I like....you will have much more success...first night I went home with 4 numbers.

 

So don't leave it as long as me....you have to fight for the good women :D

prettybaby Established Member

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I really think you're gonna have to grab yourself together and start socializing some. When you first start: make it your goal to just chat with women a bit, no other goal but talking. You'll ease up the more you do it. Once you feel comfortable talking to people, move on to your next goal: getting their number or at least seducing them a little bit.

 

I'm a woman, and when I'm in a public place: I don't care how hot a guy is. If he doesn't look interested in me, I'm definitely NOT gonna walk up to him and start a conversation.

 

You need to work on your body language too. Body language is very important. Before you approach a girl, make eye contact. Smile a bit. Just do SOMETHING lol

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