kgyula Posted November 22, 2008 Posted November 22, 2008 Hi, I'll try to make it as short as possible. Two months ago I met a girl. We were working together during this period, and still working together. After a while she started to send out signs that she may be interested in me. (her body language, way of talking, way of looking told everything). The problem is that I hesitated 1st of all because of this co-worker relationship 2nd because of my last relationship. So it was a kind of a situation when both of us knew that we like each other, but none took I the real initiative. Then... she changed, as days passed she became less sweet and few times seemed to ignore me. Well, actually she is still pretty nice to me, but I know that there is something that changed her a bit. During this "I wait for you - you wait for me" period I called her few times. She seemed pretty happy and sweet each time I called. But one day (after she began to change) I called her, and she didn't answered neither called back. Since then, I called her only during work hours and only linked to professional things. The problem is that, I know I made a mistake, but it keeps frustrating me that she liked me .... but despite this, nothing happened. So I am just wondering if it would be a possibility to reinitiate things... I know that I messed things up... but if she still likes me... there me be a way out of this hole situation.
Green Posted November 22, 2008 Posted November 22, 2008 with women if you don't bring things to the next level when the time comes the entire thing falls apart. You got comfortable at the level you got to and when you failed to step it up the entire thing fell apar... maybe its possible to get back to where you were but most likely not... if you do get back to where you were your going to have to just push right to the next level
Author kgyula Posted November 22, 2008 Author Posted November 22, 2008 hmm, I think you're right... but know you made me wonder how on earth could I get back on the tracks...
Green Posted November 23, 2008 Posted November 23, 2008 hmm, I think you're right... but know you made me wonder how on earth could I get back on the tracks... only you have the answer to that question
Author kgyula Posted November 23, 2008 Author Posted November 23, 2008 well... i decided that the best thing to do would be to let her know (indirectly) how I feel, I mean to show her that I am still interested, and to forget all the strategies and tactics. (less math ) so... after some 2 weeks of no calling, I called her... and, she picked up the phone . She seemed a bit happy, or at least I tend to believe that she was happy. Despite the facts that she was driving and already late from church, when I asked her if I am disturbing in not letting her to concentrate on the road, she replied "no, we can talk". We talked for at least 6-7 min, about lost of stuff and she seemed to enjoy it. I think this call may be the first step that helps me get back on the tracks I just need to figure out what should I do next.... I know, I know, the only person who knows the answer to that question is me
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