Sajal121 Posted November 22, 2008 Posted November 22, 2008 hello guys and gils ! my name is Sajal i m from pakistan ! welll... i m going to tell you guys about my personal life ! welll.... before 3 month ago i used online matrimonial site which is http://www.shaadi-direct.com and i met a guy who is so nice to me ! well... i just want to know that is that good to take a decision to get marry with him even i just met him on net ? your opinions will be useful for me ! so pplz please suggest me what should i do ?
lady_door Posted November 22, 2008 Posted November 22, 2008 Wait, what? You just met the guy online, not even in person, and think about getting married? Uhm.... bad idea. Very bad.
RecordProducer Posted November 22, 2008 Posted November 22, 2008 Your culture is quite different from the western and most of us on this board are not quite acquainted with it. There are members here who are familiar with Pakistani mentality. Knowing someone in person can't compare with knowing them only on the internet. You should try to get to know your guy as much as possible before you make such an important decision. By the way, can you tell us about marriages in Pakistan? Do you date before you get married? Do you kiss, have sex, travel together, etc.? Is it true that if your husband suspects that you might be cheating he is allowed to punish you in any way he wishes? Are you permitted to have male friends and go out late at night with your friends? Sorry for being so curious, but I've read some horrific stories that took place in Pakistan. I'd love to know the culture from different perspectives.
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