sunbeauty71 Posted November 22, 2008 Posted November 22, 2008 My Ex and I have a 6mth old together. We split 6 weeks ago...Have to be in contact for the baby. I thought I was doing well and we have just gotten to aplace we can talked and organise things. He rings to make sure we are doing ok, then only this week he rang and asked if I would still go on a horse ride with him we had organised when still together as it is paid for. Was here last weekend 2 see bub and told me he still missed me alot. Anyway rang him last night to ask him to pick up a cot and he picked up (I could hear all the voices like a restaurant ) and then hung up and turned ph off, then he rang back later and said just out to dinner with friends, apparently he had to get away to talk. Then the plans changed with the pick up so I went to ring this morning to advise him and yeh phones off all morning and now mid afternoon, and his Mum called to say she went and picked up cot. He hasnt been home. Im not stupid.... But now Im just hurt all over again and cant stop crying
lofi_tokyo Posted November 22, 2008 Posted November 22, 2008 I remember the first time I realized my ex was on an official date with the woman he left me for (I realize your ex didn't leave you for a woman). It killed my heart. It was so so so ****ing painful. My ex never stays out late, but that night he did not get home until 3am. God it killed me. I actually can't type more about it because it hurts so much. All I can say is... It happens to all of us here at LS. You'll make it through.
JooLee Posted November 22, 2008 Posted November 22, 2008 take it positively. if he's moving on, you should too. why cry your eyes out when he's having fun. i know its easier said than done, but please dont wallow in misery. yes, feel what you feel, cry, scream, kick, tear whatever it is that will release all the anger and hurt. but give yrself a time period. and after the period is over, get back up on your feet and move forward. tell yourself, you will not let him get the better of you. if he's inconsiderate enough to leave you and your child, you should know you dont need a person like that in your life. hope you feel better soon.
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