LucidLouise Posted November 21, 2008 Posted November 21, 2008 This really isn't about me giving a second chance to my ex but a question for people who do it. For the last year I was in a emotional roller coaster of a relationship which eventually ended. Of course there wasn't any real break since he seamed to always make contact leaving my head spinning. Well six months have past and he is now back with his ex-wife from three years ago. This woman cheated on him and ran off with another man, having three kids within the last three years of their divorce. My question here is: WHY is he back with her. Why does anyone get back with their ex spouse who cheated and had children by the other person? Has anyone here done something like this? Were you soo in love with them that you could forgive them? Did the reconcile work? Maybe if I get some perspective on this I can get some type of closure and understand where he is coming from. If anything forgive him for all the mind games he played on me. Maybe he really does love her, and I have to come to terms that I was just a transitional girl.
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