awesomeness43 Posted November 21, 2008 Posted November 21, 2008 I dont know if any other ldr couples have this issue. But when we go for a longer period of time 3-4 weeks without seeing each other, then we finally do and get intimate.... Sometimes it is really painful for her and completely kills my mood. Is it because she is getting tight all over again or should that not be happening? What can we do about it to make it better? It is actually causing a strain in our relationship as me not pleasuring her and also that i don't know what to think of this as this has never happened to me where it hurts the woman.
Island Girl Posted November 21, 2008 Posted November 21, 2008 if you are larger or she is smaller in that area - she will contract - the muscles just do. One solution is her having a dildo to insert occasionally while you are apart - just to keep her "prepped".
SoulSearch_CO Posted November 21, 2008 Posted November 21, 2008 Well, if she has been with very few men, YES, this is normal. When I was with my exH before we got married... I was on one side of the state, him on the other. We'd see each other every weekend. But heavens, yes, every time the first time hurt. Just take it slow and make sure she gets PLENTY of stimulation that very first time. Don't be afraid to draw out foreplay a little bit that first time...or at least bring some lube into the equation.
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