Emmie Posted November 21, 2008 Posted November 21, 2008 My boyfriend and I had a fight recently because I think his sister is too involved in his life. He used to run to her with every argument we had. I thought he'd stopped that when I explained how it made me feel (although now I'm not so sure). I recently came home and found him on the phone with her, talking about how he thinks I'm mentally unstable, he would choose her over me if need be, that mental illness runs in my family, and that he wants to break up with me. He claims I drove him to it because I was complaining about her and he just needed to vent. Also says this is the only time he's ever said this kind of thing to her (and I just happened to over hear it). Also says he was just trying to pacify her. I guess my question is, should I go now? We've been together 6 years and I don't think he's telling the truth when he now promises not to do this again.
MusicChick24 Posted November 21, 2008 Posted November 21, 2008 Run for the hills! Men who act like this don't ever change. Or at the same time maybe you should look at the way you treat him. Are you driving him to wanting to break up with you?
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