stayin' alive Posted November 20, 2008 Posted November 20, 2008 I was doing so well. I had NC for a little over a month, and then sent my ex an email to say "Hi". His response was really nice, but it just made me focus on the fact that he doesn't want to be with me anymore. On one hand it made me sad, but on the other hand it just drove home the fact that it's totally over, and we are never going back. I guess it was both a curse and a blessing.
lofi_tokyo Posted November 20, 2008 Posted November 20, 2008 It sounds like you got a little more of that much needed closure by talking to him. You've seen that he has clearly moved on, and is at best a friend. That hurts, I know but like you said, its good too! Now you have one less reason to cling onto some hope of him liking you again. Once you let go of that hope? You're free! Done done done! Hurrah!
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