rod_in_gtown Posted November 20, 2008 Posted November 20, 2008 So I'm in San Francisco, and I had already had conversations with this woman (a registered nurse) who lives here. we were introduced through a common friend. This girl is actually perfect for me, she's kind, she's hispanic but white enough to understand me (I'm very white given the fact that I didn't grow up in the states), she's very cute, we get along well, she's uber smart and lots of fun, she's a little shorter than I am and has actually gone out of her way several times to go out with me while I'm here in SF. She's a total nerdy dorky cutie and I'm very much attracted to her. HOWEVER, she's confusing the heck out of me. I've gotten clear signals that she likes me, she finds ways of creating physical contact with me, she took me to very romantic places last night like twin peaks blvd and the look out by the golden gate. but whenever I tried to get close she would move away, I even asked her to join me on a motorcycle ride down rt 1 on Friday but she shot it down even though I know she's free all day... This to me told me that maybe she had changed her mind about me. So when we were done with the GG bridge I told her that she should take me back to my hotel since she had school today and ended the night pretty early. When I got to the hotel I called a friend I made here and asked her to join me for drinks at the bar, we were having drinks and the RN texted me to thank me for dinner and said something about the sangria being strong. Since I was in the middle of a conversation with my other friend I didn't respond to the text, about an hour later she calls me wondering why I hadn't responded to the text and asking me what I was doing, I told her exactly what I was doing and she sounded a little annoyed, but told me that she wanted to give me a ride from my hotel to my buddy's house today to which I agreed... I feel she's giving me mixed signals and I don't know how to approach it. I definitely don't want to state in words the fact that I like her and the fact that we're 3000 miles apart does not help our situation at all... should I just limit contact with her to a friend "zone" or should I just go for it and screw the Long Distance issue? There's also the chance that she'll be put off by an unwelcome advance... all of a sudden I feel like a total rookie. Sigh...
2sure Posted November 20, 2008 Posted November 20, 2008 She likes you a lot, feels the same attraction you do, and demonstrated this through her body language. She may not be opposed to motorcycles, but have some fear of riding them and did not want to share this with you. Given the above attraction, she was confused if not offended, that her company could so swiftly and easily be replaced by another girl. Not saying this isnt showing some insecurity...but maybe she is feeling all rookie - like too.
Author rod_in_gtown Posted November 20, 2008 Author Posted November 20, 2008 She likes you a lot, feels the same attraction you do, and demonstrated this through her body language. She may not be opposed to motorcycles, but have some fear of riding them and did not want to share this with you. Given the above attraction, she was confused if not offended, that her company could so swiftly and easily be replaced by another girl. Not saying this isnt showing some insecurity...but maybe she is feeling all rookie - like too. I forgot to mention that when we were done with the GG bridge and she wanted to know what I wanted to do, I asked her to forgo the touristy stuff and come with me to the hotel and have a drink with me instead. On the phone she alluded to the fact that she would've liked to have a drink with me even though she turned the invitation down... go figure. I can understand if she's confused by my actions but it wasn't like I was "going out with another woman" this is a married friend who is not a romantic interest of any kind. just someone cool to talk to who had been asking me to have a drink with her.
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