davidjor Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 I went a entire week since i had any contact with the ex. Then, I unblocked her from IM and and she sends me a note (Gosh, where have you been. Are you still alive) anyway, I replied. Now, on a positive not about a month ago she tried to call me and i did not answer. She left a message, I did not call her back. For that matter, i have not tried to call her for several months now. Just the contact with IM and e-mail. Also, i am constantly checking her Myspace page. Which is a bitch to get over. She has her profile set to private, which i can not see her content but, i can see she is going there several times per day. Now, the real kicker is I will be back in Panama in a couple of weeks where she lives. I need to stay away from her, and hope like hell i do not run into her. Any suggestions on that? Gosh, i do not want to fall back into the same patern. But, she has some magical powers over me....
chugster Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 Go out, hang out w/ friends, find things to do, what interest you? Keep your mind off of her and eventually things will get better.
lofi_tokyo Posted November 20, 2008 Posted November 20, 2008 A similar thing happened to me David. Don't worry, you learned from the mistake, right? I did, and not its been three weeks NC (almost!), and I feel pretty good! You can do it too!
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