timmyg123 Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 with fingding out my gf of almost 3 years hada onenight stand a few months after we broke up but we arenow back to gether, i know we was not togehter but iuwas the onlyguyshe been with,. in the long run i think its good its goodcus she needsto trywithsum1 else just to know n have been with other girls its justhared thinking about it. so any wise words to help me cope with stop imaginin it would be great and accepting it cus we are gettin back togehter
EmperorR Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 It's hard when someone cheats, to get over it, but the worst thing you can do when your back together is mention or bringing it up, you have to try to forgive and forget, which is hard to do, because the trust is gone.
Author timmyg123 Posted November 19, 2008 Author Posted November 19, 2008 sorry to be not clear, i ment we were broken up at the time. she says it was nothing and feels like he doesnt exist. and wants to be with me after being apart from me made her realise that.
Moonbloodsflow Posted November 20, 2008 Posted November 20, 2008 If she is willing to put forth the effort and you truly want to try to work things out, what happened while you two were apart should be the least of your concerns. You two weren't together at that time therefore she was free to do what she wanted. Sometimes it takes situations like these for someone to realize what you meant to them. A lot of people here on the boards may not feel the same way as me but look at it this way... She was trying to fill the void that she had when she left you. There's no guarantees but I wouldn't want to live with "What if's" It's not like you own that part of her body. Let it go and give your new relationship a shot. Just know that if you decide to go forth with this you should NEVER bring it up after you make your peace. It's not fair to you or her and will ultimately doom your relationship. Just my two cents...best of luck.
Author timmyg123 Posted November 20, 2008 Author Posted November 20, 2008 thanks moonblood that has helped me i know in thelong run it is a good thing as sheaint beenwith anyonebefore and wewant to betogether in the long run so its better she gets that out of hersystem now nshe dint say it ment anything atall. so now i wont haveto wounder if her wanting totry another guy years donw the road. just imaginin it is the hard part as she was so innocent and mine but i will get over it and we have talkedalot and wantto start afresh and make us work
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