Brimstone_Angel Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 Okay this might take a little bit of honest and boldness, but I think it is an interesting thought... How many of you actually buy those books, tapes, videos, or even chemical aids that are suppose to help with enhancing a part of your love life. I am talking about those things that are suppose to help you get any guy or girl you want or enhance your sex life or certain parts of your anatomy? I one time tried out the male enhancement pills, no not because I was dissatisfied with my size or anything, but to just see if it really worked. Hmmm. Nope, I am still 6.7". I personally find it both funny and interesting the stuff people buy into to get that girl or guy of their dreams or to make their sex lives go off the charts. While I am definitely not happy with my love life, I just don't think books on how to seduce any woman really helps. And actually I would think it is kind of insulting to think one man could say or do the right thing to get every woman to fall in love with him. That would me they were drones or some seal that someone can toss a fish to, and all their thoughts and ideas of the ideal man for their lives become meaningless. So, tell me, honestly, how many of you actually have tried some of this stuff? What was it? Did it do the job for you? If yes, how? What did you do to make the "As Seen On TV" promotion work for you? Have you known anyone to have tried any of these things or techniques on you? If yes, what did it work on you? If not, what was your reaction? What do you really think about some of these things being advertised on tv and magazines? For those of you who tried it and it did not work. What was the lesson learned (if any)? For those of you who would not even bother giving a second though to these things, what would be your suggestion for those who think they need them or those who use them even though they don't need to?
beautifulearth83 Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 I haven't personally tried any of these things, but I think it's equally insulting to men as it would be to women. To think that men need some sort of special skill or size to impress a woman is insulting and to think that those things are all women care about is insulting and only fuels their power and shallowness. I think the best ad would be for a product that is an empty package called "You" and the tag-line would be "Be yourself". I think the most effective way to find someone we connect with of the opposite sex is by following our hearts and our interests.
Author Brimstone_Angel Posted November 19, 2008 Author Posted November 19, 2008 That's a good point. And I think it is obvious that it is guys who come up with this stuff too. We want to make women into us by making men think that women ARE actually more concerned with the physical things (which is actually most males than women). So, we poison ourselves with these thoughts, and this is why so many of us see women as sex objects. And yes I do find it insulting to me because, it does make me think I am inadequate or that some thing is wrong with me because I don't have a woman eating out of my palms. It takes a lot for me to remember that I am okay with the man I am. Not all of us are the hunter type, but are best at meeting people through friends who know us best and who know people who might best fit us. However, just to play devil's advocate, I do think if one read between the lines, get the right information from it, and the use it appropriately, then some of that information can help some. Maybe I won't try to hypnotize a woman to fall in love with me, but I think learning the right eye contact and finding confidence in my speaking may come a long way to finding the romance life I want.
quankanne Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 I'll be honest: one of the botanicas in San Antonio has listed on its website something called "Spanish Fly" that I'm planning to buy for my husband because I'm curious if it'll jump start his libido. I'm doubtful that anything will happen, but I *am* curious about it. frankly, I'm less worried about the ability of him not getting a woody as opposed to him being so dang blasé about not being in the mood ... because it's less about inserting Tab A into Slot B than it is about getting frisky and being tactile with each other. Well, at least it's that way for me!
Author Brimstone_Angel Posted November 19, 2008 Author Posted November 19, 2008 I'll be honest: one of the botanicas in San Antonio has listed on its website something called "Spanish Fly" that I'm planning to buy for my husband because I'm curious if it'll jump start his libido. I'm doubtful that anything will happen, but I *am* curious about it. frankly, I'm less worried about the ability of him not getting a woody as opposed to him being so dang blasé about not being in the mood ... because it's less about inserting Tab A into Slot B than it is about getting frisky and being tactile with each other. Well, at least it's that way for me! Be careful with that Spanish Fly, read up on it. I forget what are some of the possible side effects.
beautifulearth83 Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 However, just to play devil's advocate, I do think if one read between the lines, get the right information from it, and the use it appropriately, then some of that information can help some. Maybe I won't try to hypnotize a woman to fall in love with me, but I think learning the right eye contact and finding confidence in my speaking may come a long way to finding the romance life I want. Yeah I agree and don't think there is anything wrong with gaining valid knowledge on a subject. Like you've mentioned it is definitely how you use that knowledge and apply it. I'll be honest: one of the botanicas in San Antonio has listed on its website something called "Spanish Fly" that I'm planning to buy for my husband because I'm curious if it'll jump start his libido. I'm doubtful that anything will happen, but I *am* curious about it. frankly, I'm less worried about the ability of him not getting a woody as opposed to him being so dang blasé about not being in the mood ... because it's less about inserting Tab A into Slot B than it is about getting frisky and being tactile with each other. Well, at least it's that way for me! This is another way to look at it. When these products and information aid a couple that is looking to enhance or kickstart their sexual experiences. Viagra, position books etc.
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