jag2 Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 First of all I should say, I have been a snoop. But my bf and I are going through a rough patch (he is depressed), and it is making me feel self-conscious and in turn, supsicious. I have a hard time feeling like he is pulling away just from depression, but felt there had to be something else involved. I snooped at his email, and sure enough, I see a lot of recent (within the last few days) emails from chicks to his profile from an online dating site about being winked at, want to chat, etc. From what I can tell, he hasn't written any girls or winked at them, and he truly hasn't even opened the emails, or notifications, should I say, that he has received. But we met online last year through a different site, and are now living together. Is he just receiving these because he never shut his profile down, and actually has always been getting them? is he unhappy with me and wants something new? Does it make him feel better about himself to think that he is wanted by multiple people? My previous post about the depression is still a factor, but I am sooo lost in all of this!! And I would like to say I have never looked at his email prior to recently, and I know that it was wrong and an invasion of privacy. But any advice anyone?
Author jag2 Posted November 19, 2008 Author Posted November 19, 2008 I know there are trust issues right now. i have never had to deal with someone with depression, so the withdrawal, the lack of intimacy, scares me. I am hoping his new medication will help him out, and bring back the man I used to know.
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