Heartbreak hotel 2

[Jenny123]

Well my ex broke up with me, 8weeks ago. We met in Dubai, where I lived last year- we became long distance friends- he returned and I left to return to U.K to be with him. He is in the forces, I waited for him 6mths 4 him 2 come home.

 

I put on half a stone weight, 'made less effort. He came over for 5 days, very intense relationship, talking about our future, how much we love each other. After 5 days he left early and said he's very confused and can't see himself being with me and my eating lifestyle. I have arthritis, he is into physical sports which I fobbed off- but would be interested in- was just my attitude at the time. He hated my hometown as do I.

I blocked him from facebook so I could move on- still hoping for a reconcillation. I left my job 4weeks after with no job 2 go 2, had the mother of all breakdowns. Was really bad- very alone- period.

I checked four weeks after the break up that he is in a relationship with his friends sister.????? what the ****?? he told me with his promotion he had no time for a relationship.

 

He never contacted me, after our break up. I sent him a few messages, he never replied 2.

Left him a message on face book 20 days ago how could he? trying to work out if he is Mr coward, Mr liar, or just doesnt give a ****? That i'm over dating Mr Liar and ready to date Mr nice.

I then- dignity completely out the window called him, he called back, extremely aggressive on the phone that I am immature, need 2 move on and stop contacting him and what is it that I want 2 say 2 him? I asked if she was on the sidelines? he shouted no and slammed the phone down.

 

I know I shouldn't have contacted him, he spoke 2 me like something psychotic and repulsive- like he has 2 deal with me unfortunately.

I sms'd him by sms a handful of times- hardly stalking!! After the phone call, I sms'd him I would never contact him again and that I am sorry.

I haven t contacted him, nor will I.

I deleted our emails 2day but kept the photographs- not ready 2 part with those yet. when we were 2gether it was the relationship i've always wanted.

Anyways kind of accepted he is never coming back.

I even seen a fortune teller.

Going for a really good job in the middle east again.

Why do men replace a woman so quickly? - I know I can't- Don't see myself dating for a long time..

Do they get karma back?/?? Do they feel remorse?? does he ever think of me? - I sincerely hope so.I treat people the way i like to be treated and Yes I wear my heart on my sleeve!! I have been suicidal- thankfully that stage has passed..

 

I still love him but know I can't have him but I wish things were different.

 

When will I smile again?. i'm better but I look forward to nothing anymore.

 

The Script- music lyrics good 4 break ups!

[Konfuzion]

I dont know if its just me but this is a really hard read, from what I do see it sounds like the best thing for you to do is to go no contact and delete all reminders of him (including the pictures) I think he made it quite clear that he doesn't want any contact from you. Also you seem to be playing into what he is saying, he calls you immature and shortly there after you slam the phone down do you think slamming the phone down is a mature reaction??? Or even better for that matter do you think it will accomplish anything at all?

 

Move on, go out have fun, and work on yourself.

[Jenny123]

My ex slammed the phone down on me. No i won't contact him again, hence why i'm writing on this site to move on. Konfusion?