sampierce55 Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 Okay so i dont really know were to start here but here it goes, Ive know this girl for years since high school i was told she always fancied me but i never really was intrested in her until about 6 months ago after i hadnt seen her for years im 17 btw , so we get talking etc.. i find out she still likes me and i dont know what is was this time but i really liked her it was strange, so we decided to go out we went the pictures etc... had a good time, then the next day she wanted to go on a walk so we did, we started talking and making out and as we were going home she was holding my hand, now i never heard from here for months after that she wouldnt return my txts i did get to speak to her tho, she said she just wanted to spend time with her freinds and that she would make time for me, so..... about 3 weeks ago we went out clubbing she wanted too, we made out again etc... its obvs that we liked each other so then she started txting me saying she wants me to be her boyfreind and i agreed because i like her loads... so we were together for two weeks :eek:everything was totally fine i was so happy and she seemed it aswell, and then she started saying stuff like she wernt ready etc... she needs to sort thing out in her head i mean wtf, i couldnt believe it im totally shattered as my family really liked her too, i can understand her not being ready but the things she used to say to me like she loved me and stuff i mean what im i supposed to think, i feel like i complete idiot now, it seems there is no hope on me having a relationship (she was my first proper girlfreind) i mean am i ugly or sumthin i honestly dont know what to think i feel completely gutted ,
Author sampierce55 Posted November 19, 2008 Author Posted November 19, 2008 im actually wondering weather to go after her or just leave it
2sure Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 Sampierce55- I think it is quite possible your post has not generated a bunch of replies because you are 17. Many posters here are older and in different circumstances. But we all remember the anguish that IS 17. People always look back on life and say I loved my childhood, I love grammar school, I loved being in my 20s, etc. Not too many remember 17 as fondly. That being said. You have had possibly your first love and are heartbroken. Having no other point of reference or experience - makes it fresh, unfamiliar and painful. Ouch. Rest assured, there will be more to come. This girl, while acting harsh and immature - is not acting so very differently than 17 yo girls always have. And you are not reacting any differently than guys your age always have. Still, you sound way too good for her. Dont worry so much about dating right now - very soon , the girls / women you date will be worth it.
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