ShevLizzard Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 I really don't know where to start so I'll try my best to start from the beginning. I've been with my current partner for 4 months and 3 weeks. This is his first relationship and we both have trust issues that we managed to overcome. He used to think the world of me, trust me with everything and love me completely. Around two months ago I bumped into the father of my neice, my sisters ex boyfriend, and began talking to him. Later in the week that I bumped into him I went around to his house for a catch up and ending up staying the night. We did not sleep together but he did go to kiss me. I pulled away. Around a month later me and my current boyfriend went to a nightclub in town with friends. I was very angry and upset with him that night and ended up leaving him. When he returned to the nightclub I kissed another guy in front of my current boyfriend. Obviously, my boyfriend was enraged and we had a big row. We are still together to this day... barely. He is having a hard time trusting me and feeling how he used to feel. Last night on the phone he told me he hates me for what I did, understandably, but he still loves me. Ever since what happened I have apologised profusely. I know this fixes nothing but he knows I am sorry. I constantly feel guilty but this is not why I am here. Can anyone give me any advice on how I can make things better? I understand that I will never be able to make it how it used to be. I merely hope we can be stronger for it and he can trust me again. I've never cheated on anyone before and I hate myself immensely for what I've done. I cannot lose him. He means everything to me. Please help me.
Peter_pan Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 trust takes a life time to build and a second to take away. you need to gain his trust back and show him that he can trust you. you need to tell him the truth about everything which im sure you have? trust needs a foundation and you need to now move on from that and both be stronger for it. you need to build trust through examples. so obviously kissing someone else is off the cards lol your be fine
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