samsungxoxo Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 esp. when they don't like their child's SO, do they go talking bad about them to more than 10 people or tell intimate details to a close friend of her. That's what my mother would do for more than a year of our 2 years 2 months of relationship and b/f still hasn't forgiven her (she try a fake apology on him once last year but he detected it so fast, got him even more piss). It's ok to not like your child's SO but to complain about it to people, esp. tell it all to a close friend, the nerve.... My father on the other hand, sure he doesn't like him either but has never say a word outside the house, whatever is say or done in the house isn't spread out.
amaysngrace Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 She may be his future mother-in-law. Tell BF to get use to it.
Author samsungxoxo Posted November 19, 2008 Author Posted November 19, 2008 She may be his future mother-in-law. Tell BF to get use to it. True, boy what a hard position I'm into. See he does tend to hold grudges, esp. when it deals with people saying things behind his back and not on his face.
Geishawhelk Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 Her problem is that she can't keep her mouth closed. The rest, is his problem. They need to reach a compromise. Sit down, talk it over, reach an agreement. There's nothing written anywhere that says they have to like one another. But really, they should at least try to stablish a mutually acceptable level of respect.
Author samsungxoxo Posted November 19, 2008 Author Posted November 19, 2008 Her problem is that she can't keep her mouth closed. The rest, is his problem. They need to reach a compromise. Sit down, talk it over, reach an agreement. There's nothing written anywhere that says they have to like one another. But really, they should at least try to stablish a mutually acceptable level of respect. They did long ago, she fake an apology but lol b/f notice it right away.
bentnotbroken Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 I have said some negative things about the SO of my older child. Fortunately for me they proved me right. But I learned a lesson. It drove a wedge between me and my child. I will never let that happan agian, no person is worth it. As long as they aren't abusive to my child or cheating, I will keep my mouth closed. I might tell my mommy.
blind_otter Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 IME, whenever my parents did not like an S/O of mine, it was for some good reason or another. I'm just sayin'.
Author samsungxoxo Posted November 19, 2008 Author Posted November 19, 2008 IME, whenever my parents did not like an S/O of mine, it was for some good reason or another. I'm just sayin'. True but then again, they're humans and can make mistakes, no one is except save for computers and robots. I wonder what if she's wrong the whole time and doesn't realize it?
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