ConfusedAtHome Posted November 18, 2008 Posted November 18, 2008 Hi everyone, I'm fairly new here and have posted on the infidelity forum a few times regarding my situation. Here's a quick rundown of my relationship: I have been with my partner for just over 3 years (we are both women) and we own a house together and have been building a life together for our future. About 3-4 months ago a straight girl at her office began flirting with my partner and my partner reciprocated in what is essentially became an emotional affair. This EA caused my partner to question her feelings for me. She doesn't have contact with this person outside of work now, but our relationship has changed for the worse. We have talked about breaking up a few times, but nothing concrete until saw on her social networking site Saturday that her relationship status was single. So, Sunday I left the house to be with some friends for the day and she asked where I was going and I told her that it doesn't matter since we are broken up and she wants to be single. This did not go over well. She called and texted me later Sunday saying she doesn't want to be hateful, etc. So, I have been sleeping in our guest bedroom the past two nights and have not called or text her throughout the days (for checking in, etc.). Trying to do as much NC as possible when we are still in the same house. This morning she came into my room and asked me how I was and I said I was fine. She then rolled me over and hugged me for a while and buried her head in my neck. Then she let go and kissed me on the cheek. So, this is CONFUSING me! She wants to be broken up and move out once we have our house situation figured out, but then she is trying to be affectionate and loving. It makes me upset because of the confusion it is causing. Thanks for any insight!
Author ConfusedAtHome Posted November 18, 2008 Author Posted November 18, 2008 Hmm. I think there is really only one way to sum this up. Women are crazy! Agreed! Be thankful you aren't a lesbian.
Author ConfusedAtHome Posted November 18, 2008 Author Posted November 18, 2008 Hell, I'm a lesbian in a guys body... cuz i like women! but damn. in all seriousness, theres no easy approach to this. there never is in any of these type of situations. but its definitely your partners fault and error. so accept that and make ur next decision from there I just don't understand her breaking up with me and then trying to be affectionate. It has me terribly confused.
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