D-lan Posted November 18, 2008 Posted November 18, 2008 Okay, so my girlfriend was talking about getting me a Christmas present, saying things like, "You will never guess what it is, hehe" and we had a little game going on, and I, being somewhat a stalker, check her photobucket.com site daily, and I found what she is getting me, and I felt absolutely terrible. The thing is, I haven't been in this situation before, so I am looking for advice. Should I tell her that I have found what it is, possibly making her cry because this is something really important to me, and she thought long and hard about what to get me. or Forget I saw it, and be excited when I get the present (and I know I will be, even though I know what it is.) yet, keep this sadness within me knowing that I had known all along, and suffering every time she teases me about it until christmas. Has anyone else delt with something like this? It is not good, both choices could lead to something bad, but quite honestly, I am thinking about keeping it in, because I love her to the point where I am willing to make myself miserable for her happiness... thoughts?
BubblyPopcorn Posted November 18, 2008 Posted November 18, 2008 Forget I saw it, and be excited when I get the present (and I know I will be, even though I know what it is.) yet, keep this sadness within me knowing that I had known all along, and suffering every time she teases me about it until christmas. I love her to the point where I am willing to make myself miserable for her happiness... All this suffering over a Christmas present? That's not what Christmas is supposed to be about.
D-Lish Posted November 18, 2008 Posted November 18, 2008 Act surprised. Why tell her you snooped and ruin her surprise? It makes no sense.
Author D-lan Posted November 18, 2008 Author Posted November 18, 2008 All this suffering over a Christmas present? That's not what Christmas is supposed to be about. True enough. I don't know a lot about this whole relationship scene, I have been with her for a few years, but I just want some others opinions. thanks for the feedback though.
Author D-lan Posted November 18, 2008 Author Posted November 18, 2008 Act surprised. Why tell her you snooped and ruin her surprise? It makes no sense. Thanks for the feedback.
BubblyPopcorn Posted November 18, 2008 Posted November 18, 2008 True enough. I don't know a lot about this whole relationship scene, I have been with her for a few years, but I just want some others opinions. thanks for the feedback though. Well if you've been with her for a few years already then you're doing something right Snooper pooper
Ariadne Posted November 18, 2008 Posted November 18, 2008 thoughts? If it was me I'd tease her back. Like, ok, "the thing".. what I always wanted to have" etc. (and then tell her)
Author D-lan Posted November 18, 2008 Author Posted November 18, 2008 If it was me I'd tease her back. Like, ok, "the thing".. what I always wanted to have" etc. (and then tell her) hmm. The thing is, I have a terrible memory, and she wouldn't fall for something so easy. lol
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