nitabean Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 This is what I got from my BF last night. A little history, we have been together since 12/07, he has never told me that he loves me, he moved in about 3 weeks ago and last night I asked why he cant seem to open up to me.....his answer "I just want to make sure its right this time". He has increased on "showing" me how he feels but he just cant seem to speak it. He has had 2 failed LTR before me and both woman cheated. I told him I have been patient and given him the time and space he needs to sort it out but how long should I pay for their mistakes. He said he understood and followed it with the classic "i wouldnt be here if I didnt want to be" also followed with "me moving in here should tell you something". I told him that I dont want to pressure him but sometimes actions arent enough. I am a girl and I like a little bit of mushy stuff. He laughed with me and we went back to bed. Today has been normal...he texted me before work and on his break and I know I will see he tonight when I get off.......but what should I do from here! Last night was the first time I felt like I might lose him and it was scary......why would he move in if he wasnt sure? I asked him if he is keeping me on the back burner while he continues to explore and he said no but that is the way it feels.....HELP!!!
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