Alex_M Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 Can someone tell me how it's possible to break up with someone after 2 years all of a sudden because you're scared of a long term relationship even though there is no other guy involved and she says she's not interested in relationship. Any opinions on this please? I really need answers/someone to talk to.
pushforward Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 Could be the grass is greener. She wants to be single and ready to mingle. Unfortunately, she doesn't want to be with you. Could be another guy in the picture that she developed feelings for and wants to see where it goes. Could be many things. Just accept her answer of it being over. Focus on yourself and put yourself into a better position. It's best to accept that it's over for good. Do not live off of false hope. It will drive you mad. I've been through it and still fighting that stupid part of me off.
Author Alex_M Posted November 17, 2008 Author Posted November 17, 2008 I just got a job working hours from 2pm-9pm. My first day was today, I was going good but this has almost destroyed my soul. I need to call them up and tell them I can't work these hours. It's too lonely and depressing. I accepted these hours back when I was with my ex. So she would have been there to talk to afterwards. But I found myself at 9:30pm at night at a dark empty train station on my own standing in the rain. I just broke down there and then. I really really really really want her back. I mean I understand WHY she did it, we didn't see each other often, then I get this job. Erg, I know that it's not MY fault but I KNOW if i'd done things differently this wouldn't have happened.
Eyeofthoth Posted November 18, 2008 Posted November 18, 2008 "I really really really really want her back." I know this feeling. It's a terrible feeling. I'm so sorry you have to feel this too. "I know that it's not MY fault but I KNOW if i'd done things differently this wouldn't have happened." I know that feeling too. It wasn't my fault, because I really, really tried to be there for him, but I had a lot of life circumstances to deal with and that made the relationship a lot of work for him . . . It seems so unfair to me now that I had to deal with the life circumstances AND I had to lose him. So I had a lot of crap to deal with, and then because of that, I got more crap. . . ?????????? But hey, I know life isn't fair and mine is a bed of roses compared to some people's. . . It will get better . . .
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