propelling111 Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 So my girlfriend and i have been together for 6 month now. Recently i started college and shes still in high school but i come home every weekend to see her. The thing is when we are together on the weekend, everything is perfect, but during the week, she would be sad and not want to talk. I ask her why shes sad and she says its because of my past history with other girls. We tried to work this through, but last night she decided that its best that i dont call ever or see her again. She tells me that she loves me and shes so happy but she can not take the sadness part. I said okay that we wont talk or see each other, but we both still love each other and are so happy. what should i do?
Geishawhelk Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 Nope. She doesn't feel the same way. Two things are possible here: She really does have issues with your past, and can't let go (has she mentioned this before.....?) Or..... There's someone else tickling her interest.
Geishawhelk Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 just seen your last thread. I'd seriously give up with this one, and move on. It's not going to change now.....
Author propelling111 Posted November 17, 2008 Author Posted November 17, 2008 so i should just let her go?
Author propelling111 Posted November 17, 2008 Author Posted November 17, 2008 i just feel that i have never loved someone so much and to give it up. I know i can still go to her house this weekend and she ll talk to me. I told her that over time this sadness will get better but she didnt listen.
Geishawhelk Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 Just let her go.... How old are you? Forget it. if there's a 'one' at the front of the number, you're still too young to be thinking of everlasting true love. You'll heal. Trust me, you will. Everyone at that age thinks that the love they have is the be-all and end-all.... You've only just started.
Author propelling111 Posted November 17, 2008 Author Posted November 17, 2008 im 19 and shes 17. maybe shes too young. its the letting go part thats so hard because we did everything together
Geishawhelk Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 YOU'RE BOTH TOO YOUNG!! Just hang out, be friends, enjoy each other's company with no strings attached! You have your friends, let her have hers, and share others.... but just be carefree and enjoy life! It's waaaaay to soon to be thinking of being overly serious! Take the pressure off and promise yourself to not get physical. But just chill a bit and don't be so intense!
Author propelling111 Posted November 18, 2008 Author Posted November 18, 2008 thats what i suggested but she insist on not talking or hanging out.
trex Posted November 18, 2008 Posted November 18, 2008 Honestly man, give her the space that she's asking for. You can't change the past so there is nothing you can do to make her feel better about the situation. It seems she's really loves you though. Let her have time to gather her thoughts and realize what it is she wants.
serenitylies Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 If you really love her and believe that she loves you just the same, then you two should have a serious talk. Having her call you or text you telling you that you shouldnt see each other or talk to each other anymore, shouldnt be enough. If you love her as much as you say you do, then go for her. You say you can still go over this weekend, then go. Show her how much youve changed from your past to now, and if its for her, let her now. Bring her flowers, out to dinner, movie, whatever it is that she loves, give it to her. Show her how much youve changed. Because if my ex-bf did that for me, I'd fall head over heels, and trust me. No one is ever too young to fall in love. And I say that because as your gf is 17, so am I. And the man I love is 20, who is now going out with someone else. I wish you lots of luck. =D
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