apexi08 Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 I lied to my girlfriend and she is very unhappy with me. She is a strong advocate of staying sober and not drinking at all. I have not been exposed to this ever in my life, and I do drink occasionally, and much less ever since we have been together. Things were not always this way with her and we saw each other again after 4 years and fell in love. She lied to me at the beginning of our relationship about having contact with an her ex boyfriend. It really hurt me but I chose to forgive her. On a few occasions she asked me if I had been drinking and I lied and told her I hadn't. She is real upset and wont seem to forgive me now and I don't know what to. Drinking is something I am willing to get over and I would love to stay happy and do stuff with her that would keep us active and not require that. What do I do?
norajane Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 she lied about contacting her ex a few times = you forgave her you lied about drinking a few times = she won't forgive you She doesn't like any drinking and gets mad if you drink at all? I'm sorry, but I don't think you can do anything unless you agree to be her doormat forever. Sounds like it's her way or the highway, no room for compromise, regardless of the issue.
AAlike Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 is she an addict or something along those lines?
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