Keslove Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 GF said I'm "the ONE" after 2.5 years of dating. I can't say it back. This is my first relationship and I have nothing to compare it to. Is this bad? Should I break it off before I hurt her?
lady_door Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 I've read your other post as well and obviously there are some issues for you in the relationship. You say that you can't tell her she's the one... but on the other hand you've been together for a long time so there has to be something, right? How is your relationship overall? Do you love her? And the question whether you should end it now BEFORE you hurt her.... that's crap. You've been dating for over 2 years and she just told you that you're the one... so obviously it's going to hurt her A LOT no matter if you end it now or later. And just out of curiosity, how old are you? How old is she?
amaysngrace Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 I think you're freaking out because she told you that. It brings the relationship to a whole new level when those words come out. I think you need to take a break from her and see other people. This way you can figure out what you want and if it's her or not. Yeah it stinks because she is totally into you but it's not fair if she has you and you're not totally into her back. So it's better to decide now than later in my opinion. For both of you.
GoodOnPaper Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 GF said I'm "the ONE" after 2.5 years of dating. I can't say it back. This is my first relationship and I have nothing to compare it to. Is this bad? Should I break it off before I hurt her? It's a tough decision because you have so much time invested, but if you don't feel the same after this long, feelings will not magically develop over additional time -- and I speak from experience on that.
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