Sysyphus28 Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 Thank you all so much for your help and support. It is monday, and I am standing outside myself looking at all my posts and threads today. These last three months have been really hard. But at the same time they have been eye-opening and life changing. I don't want to be angry or hurting anymore. I don't want to feel guilty or resentful. I have had a funeral for the relationship, I have had some bitter text wars, and phone conversations. Anger still exists between me and my ex. But I have come to terms with the finality of our relationship. I know and FEEL that it is over between us. I have moved on from the sleepless nights and constant lamentation. Anger will take time. I feel confident in my abilities to be with someone better. Thier is someone better out thier for me. I am going to have fun and date, stay busy, and make new memories........................................... I am letting the old ones go..... now.
EmperorR Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 congrats, I always looked forward to reading your threads and posts.
norajane Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 If you're really grateful for the help and support you've received, don't leave now! Pay it forward - stick around and help other people go through their healing process and give them the benefit of your experience.
LittleDove Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 I have thought about this. I hope to feel like you do soon. Awesome. Theres a great book called, The Power Of lLving In The NOW, by Eckhart Tolle. I think you would like it. your post instantly reminded me of that book. Reccomended:) cheers, enjoy- and goodluck:)
Author Sysyphus28 Posted November 17, 2008 Author Posted November 17, 2008 If you're really grateful for the help and support you've received, don't leave now! Pay it forward - stick around and help other people go through their healing process and give them the benefit of your experience. Pay it forward....your right! I will. Thanks for the idea it is only fair.
sultry33 Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 Pay it forward....your right! I will. Thanks for the idea it is only fair. i saw that film.. its a great idea and yes it really works Sysyphus.. i hang out in the datin area on here.. helps me;) glad you are on your way.. feels better huh x
Geishawhelk Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 Pay it forward....your right! I will. Thanks for the idea it is only fair. Damn. I bought the leaving present. Should I take it back? Would a size 6 girdle fit you anyway? Glad you're sticking around....
Author Sysyphus28 Posted November 19, 2008 Author Posted November 19, 2008 HAHHA. Things will be ok. Thats great to say out loud
Peter_pan Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 hey man, great decision and mind set hope you stay buddie, you have been (stupidly)very helpful with me and my issues peace x
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