Char.isma Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 So, I recently got a girlfriend and things have been going really well, we're really into eachother, get along really well, etc. Let me just say as a disclaimer that I know that relationships at this age aren't supposed to last long or turn into anything serious and if they do that's a rarity. So with that said I have the mentality of going out, being a teenager, and having fun. So we've been kind of (and I mean kind of) turning the physical heat from going from just kissing to a little making out and touching but it's really difficult for me to figure out how to escalate on things like this (I don't lack confidence, I'm confident I just lack the tricks to doing this). Another point is the fact that my GF had some previous sexual trauma from her childhood and while she is definitely not shy when it comes to me and my body she seems very sensitive about her "area" and I understand that this trauma most likely has a great deal to do with this and I'm wondering how to figure out how to make her comfortable with me. Thanks for taking the time to read this. Peace.
casanovacorner Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 Just keep doing what you're doing. Time is the only thing that will help your situation. When she's ready, it will escalate.
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