spookie Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Gender: Age: How long have you been single? Are you in love? How often do you go on dates? Where do you meet people? Why do your dates fail to progress to an R? Do you want to be in an R? What are you looking for? Do you think you'll find it? What if you don't? What do you do on the weekends? What's your sex life like? How often? With whom? Dates? Short R's? F-buddies? How many partners a year? How do you feel about them? Is your clock a-tickin?
Author spookie Posted November 16, 2008 Author Posted November 16, 2008 Gender: F Age: 22 How long have you been single? 1.5 years if you don't count a couple of flings I had which I knew were pointless. I've been FEELING single for 1.5 years. Are you in love? Yah, with my boss. How often do you go on dates? Never. Where do you meet people? I don't. Why do your dates fail to progress to an R? Nevermind, I'm asking YOU. Do you want to be in an R? Yah, but only the kind with love in it. What are you looking for? Hard for me to answer that without thinking of the person I want to be with. Do you think you'll find it? What if you don't? Not at this rate. What do you do on the weekends? Nothing special. Hanging out with friends, going to the gym, going rock climbing, reading, etc. What's your sex life like? It doens't exist, but I'm more curious about yours. How often? With whom? Dates? Short R's? F-buddies? How many partners a year? How do you feel about them? Is your clock a-tickin? Yes.
johan Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Gender: M Age: 38 How long have you been single? >3 years Are you in love? No. How often do you go on dates? Never. Where do you meet people? Nowhere. Why do your dates fail to progress to an R? I don't trust women anymore. I regret every relationship I've ever been in. So I don't have much staying power. It's an unconscious revulsion to getting in deep again, only to find out I dove in by myself. Or I dove in with someone who can't swim. Do you want to be in an R? Yes. But it's unimaginable. I don't feel much regret when I fail to make things happen. Even tonight I saw a girl who I've had a crush on forever. And I didn't do anything. Just like a thousand times before. And I'm not all that bothered about it. What are you looking for? A new outlook. Do you think you'll find it? What if you don't? Hope so. If I don't, I'll be buried in an anonymous mass grave. But I'll have stopped caring altogether long before that happens. What do you do on the weekends? Hang out. Do domestic chores. Work out. Sometimes go out with friends. What's your sex life like? ha ha. Is your clock a-tickin? It kind of is. This isn't the life I thought I'd have.
Author spookie Posted November 16, 2008 Author Posted November 16, 2008 Gender: M Age: 38 How long have you been single? >3 years Are you in love? No. How often do you go on dates? Never. Where do you meet people? Nowhere. Why do your dates fail to progress to an R? I don't trust women anymore. I regret every relationship I've ever been in. So I don't have much staying power. It's an unconscious revulsion to getting in deep again, only to find out I dove in by myself. Or I dove in with someone who can't swim. Do you want to be in an R? Yes. But it's unimaginable. I don't feel much regret when I fail to make things happen. Even tonight I saw a girl who I've had a crush on forever. And I didn't do anything. Just like a thousand times before. And I'm not all that bothered about it. What are you looking for? A new outlook. Do you think you'll find it? What if you don't? Hope so. If I don't, I'll be buried in an anonymous mass grave. But I'll have stopped caring altogether long before that happens. What do you do on the weekends? Hang out. Do domestic chores. Work out. Sometimes go out with friends. What's your sex life like? ha ha. Is your clock a-tickin? It kind of is. This isn't the life I thought I'd have. I'm not really into hugs, but right now I'd really like to give you one. Or, like, a billion.
johan Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 I'm not really into hugs, but right now I'd really like to give you one. Or, like, a billion. Hm. Sounds like a fast track to a new outlook. 43, private 2nd class, serial # 14539202 ha ha. You forgot your SS#.
Nemo Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 I would also like to give johan a hug. But not a billion. Just a big, intense, long one with the occasional inguinal swivel.
Trialbyfire Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Gender: Female Age: 33 How long have you been single? The last short-term relationship ended a little over a month ago. Since then, I've dated one guy, casually a couple of times. Are you in love? No. How often do you go on dates? It depends. Sometimes I multi-date, other times I don't feel like dating, other times, one guy at a time. Where do you meet people? Primarily through friends, assorted work contacts and some old "friends", albeit not close friends. Once in a blue moon, I'll date a stranger. Why do your dates fail to progress to an R? I'm relationship averse. Do you want to be in an R? No. What are you looking for? Nothing. Do you think you'll find it? What if you don't? Don't know, don't care. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, life goes on. What do you do on the weekends? Date, hang out with friends, hang out on LS, work out, clean, hang out with family, whatever. What's your sex life like? At this moment, non-existent. Is your clock a-tickin? Not in the least. I enjoy my freedom.
BoerumHill Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Age: 46 How long have you been single? 2.5 years since my last committed LTR; several casual/STR since Are you in love? No How often do you go on dates? Every week Where do you meet people? Various groups (hiking, sailing, etc), friends, online Why do your dates fail to progress to an R? When they do it's because it is the natural progression, it just flows; when it doesn't happen, if there is no connection, I just move on Do you want to be in an R? Not a high priority right now, but I'm open to the possibility What are you looking for? Companionship, helpmate, travel partner Do you think you'll find it? What if you don't? Eventually, yes. In the unlikely event it doesn't, I'll survive What do you do on the weekends? Usually something cultural (museum/symphony, etc), watch live music, or escape to the countryside What's your sex life like? Cotton candy (sweet, sticky, but not much there) How often? Not enough With whom? Dates? Short R's? F-buddies? Yes/Yes/Gave it up for lent How many partners a year? Handful How do you feel about them? Indifferent Is your clock a-tickin? Nope
Isolde Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Age: 22 How long have you been single? forever Are you in love? No How often do you go on dates? About 3 times a year, but my last was 6 months ago... eep! Where do you meet people? School, rarely bars or online. Why do your dates fail to progress to an R? One or the other just isn't "feeling it" enough, I guess? Do you want to be in an R? Yeah, but I've learned the hard way that a lot of it is in fate's hands. What are you looking for? Companionship, fun, sex! Do you think you'll find it? What if you don't? Eventually, yes. In the unlikely event it doesn't, I'll survive. <-- stole this one ^^ What do you do on the weekends? Homework, homework, study in cafes, take walks around town, go to library, study study, laundry, work out, call mom... etc. What's your sex life like? A big fat -null-. How often? Never With whom? Dates? Short R's? F-buddies? A bit of casual dating in the past. How many partners a year? 0, on average.
CandyGirlXO Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 If you don't mind me asking are you a virgin? Age: 22 How long have you been single? forever Are you in love? No How often do you go on dates? About 3 times a year, but my last was 6 months ago... eep! Where do you meet people? School, rarely bars or online. Why do your dates fail to progress to an R? One or the other just isn't "feeling it" enough, I guess? Do you want to be in an R? Yeah, but I've learned the hard way that a lot of it is in fate's hands. What are you looking for? Companionship, fun, sex! Do you think you'll find it? What if you don't? Eventually, yes. In the unlikely event it doesn't, I'll survive. <-- stole this one ^^ What do you do on the weekends? Homework, homework, study in cafes, take walks around town, go to library, study study, laundry, work out, call mom... etc. What's your sex life like? A big fat -null-. How often? Never With whom? Dates? Short R's? F-buddies? A bit of casual dating in the past. How many partners a year? 0, on average.
Nemo Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 If you don't mind me asking are you a virgin? I think I am - provided that taking it up the arse doesn't count.
CandyGirlXO Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 I think I am - provided that taking it up the arse doesn't count. LOL!!!!!
Brimstone_Angel Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Gender: Male Age: 38 How long have you been single? Over 4 years of an rl relationship. Over 3 years for a long distant relationship. Are you in love? No. There are a few women I am attracted to, but none of them I really see myself wanting to ask out. I would love to be one day again. People can tell when I am in love. I am a totally different person than I am usually am. How often do you go on dates? Not often. Even in my relationships date nights tended to be far and in-between due to my ex's lifestyle. I am not a date person and I usually end up with date partners. Where do you meet people? Through friends or online. Why do your dates fail to progress to an R? Distance, goals in life fail to match, or they just fall out of love with me. Do you want to be in an R? I pray for this everyday. This is one of the reasons why I have depression issues. What are you looking for? I want a woman who first wants and is working for a relationship that will lead to marriage and children. A woman who have like personality traits such as myself. A woman who is sensual and erotic and kinky like myself. Someone who has goals and willing to meld them with mine and I with her's. A woman who is cute to gorgeous, nice chest and butt, and slim to athletic build. Do you think you'll find it? I pray so. What if you don't? I've already asked God not to let me live any longer than I have to if the blessing of a wife and children is not in future. What do you do on the weekends? Hang out at home focused on hobbies and other things in my own little world. This is actually more often now since I am unemployed and have very little coming in to really go out and enjoy myself with. What's your sex life like? When I had it, AWESOME! I have always had compliments for my skills and prowess. But, it the end left me dead inside and feeling like I failed myself because I was giving myself to women who turned out not to be worth it or when I had to pay for prostitutes for that emotional AND physical intimacy that I needed, I felt like I was just an uncontrollable animal. So, now I am looking for a woman who is either a virgin and practicing abstinence or a woman who is working on her second virginity like myself. How often? Out of the 9 partners I have had in my life (this includes the women I paid for the time), I'd say 16 to 18 times between 1992 and 2003. With whom? I won't tell. Dates? Some. Short R's? Not by intent. F-buddies? If you consider prostitutes as f-buddies, yes. How many partners a year? 1992 = 1; 1999 = 1; 2000 = 1; 2001 = 1; 2002 = 4; 2003 = 1 How do you feel about them? 1992 = Loved; 1999 = Business transaction; 2001 = Loved; 2002 = All business transactions Is your clock a-tickin? Yes and no. Yes because I didn't expect to be single and without children at this age. No. Because one can't control how or when these things in life takes place.
Stockalone Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Gender: Male Age: 30 How long have you been single? Nearly 4 years. Are you in love? No, but I have a bit of a crush. But I really shouldn't have that crush. How often do you go on dates? I haven't dated in years. And before that, I went on one or maybe two dates a year when I was single. Where do you meet people? I basically don't meet new people. From time to time I meet people through friends, but that doesn't really count as I don't do more than have some polite small talk. Why do your dates fail to progress to an R? Given that I don't date, there is nothing that could progress into a R. Do you want to be in an R? Even though I haven't asked a woman out on a date in years, I really would like to be in a relationship. It's not that I don't want to date, but I currently don't pass my own test, so I am not good enough to date. But I have no one to blame but myself for becoming "undateable". What are you looking for? A woman I feel comfortable around. I would like to find a woman again who, when I look at her and talk to her, inspires me to become a better man. A woman to grow old with and have a family together, a woman I can love and, (to address my insecure/needy side) a woman who will become a stabilizing influence in my life by just being herself. Do you think you'll find it? What if you don't? I don't think so. I mean, I do still believe in love, but I have more or less given up hope to find love for myself. Assuming I don't lose the will to live, I will probably become the eccentric/odd uncle, the kind of guy everyone in the family still likes, but every now and then wonders what the heck is wrong with him. The kind of man that doesn't talk much, is never seen with a gf and only shows up from time to time at family gatherings to spoil his niece(s) and/or nephew(s). What do you do on the weekends? I go out with friends occasionally, but that is becoming less frequent as most of my friends don't live nearby. And nearly all of them are now in relationships and spent most of their spare time with their SO or other couples. Sometimes, I do things alone like going to the movies, go to the zoo, go see a soccer match, visit historic sites. But more often than not, I spend the evenings at home and watch a movie. What's your sex life like? Non-existent. Is your clock a-tickin? I guess so. But my clock isn't ticking loud enough yet to make me want to drastically change. Change is a long and difficult path, but I have taken a few first steps. Time will tell if I am too set in my ways or if I can at least make enough changes to deserve another chance with the kind of woman I would like to date.
Ariadne Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Gender: F Age: 41 ~ How long have you been single? Two years since my last FWB. ~ Are you in love? No. ~ How often do you go on dates? Never. ~ Where do you meet people? I don't. ~ Why do your dates fail to progress to an R? I've tried dating and never met a guy I liked. ~ Do you want to be in an R? Only with DG at the moment. ~ What are you looking for? A spiritual connection. ~ Do you think you'll find it? What if you don't? I thought I did for the first time, but he didn't think so. ~ What do you do on the weekends? Smoke weed, drink coffee/beer/diet coke, surf the net, clean. ~ What's your sex life like? No sex. ~ How often? 0. ~ With whom? Dates? Short R's? F-buddies? Used to be with FWB always because I never fell in love with any guy I dated. ~ How many partners a year? 0. ~ How do you feel about them? Don't want to deal. ~ Is your clock a-tickin? No.
openbook08 Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Gender: F Age: 25 How long have you been single? 5.5 months since breakup but about a month since I completely blocked him out of my life...back together for about 3wks in between Are you in love? not anymore, hes like a stranger to me now How often do you go on dates? none..yet Where do you meet people? pubs/clubs there really isnt a good dating scene in Ireland unfortunately Why do your dates fail to progress to an R? have yet to find out. great!! Do you want to be in an R? yes What are you looking for? laughter,trust,equality,friendship Do you think you'll find it? What if you don't? he'll find me. its my turn to be loved and adored & I tell ya if that happens Ill give it right back What do you do on the weekends? shop/work out/sleep/pub-club/family/drive What's your sex life like? non existant How often? - With whom? Dates? Short R's? F-buddies? not into f buddies or anythin like that How many partners a year? 0 How do you feel about them? Id really have to care about someone..love them.. to sleep with them tbh. Is your clock a-tickin? noooooooo waaaaaaaaaaay __________________
Sears Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Gender: Age: How long have you been single? Are you in love? How often do you go on dates? Where do you meet people? Why do your dates fail to progress to an R? Do you want to be in an R? What are you looking for? Do you think you'll find it? What if you don't? What do you do on the weekends? What's your sex life like? How often? With whom? Dates? Short R's? F-buddies? How many partners a year? How do you feel about them? Is your clock a-tickin? Gender:M Age:38 How long have you been single?Technically four years(a couple short term relationships) Are you in love?-No How often do you go on dates?-A few times a month. Where do you meet people?-through friends, online or jsut bumping into someone. Why do your dates fail to progress to an R?-Hard question. Anyone I have gone on a date with in the past few years has gone on for sometimes as many as 15 dates before flaking begins. I hear one of two things, "you can't give me what I need(something in me I'm not reconizing or want to reconize most likely my not being sure of being in a relationship)or "I don't know why, I should really be into you"(after it ends, they seem to pop up out of nowhere within a couple weeks) Do you want to be in an R?-When I'm not in one, I do. When I feel one is coming, I go cautious(leftover stuff from my divorce I'm thinking)and suddenly they pull back What are you looking for?-someone spontaneous like I am. Someone who can be honest with. Someone who I can't have sex with on the first or second date which prevents me from thinking too far as in a real relationship. Do you think you'll find it? What if you don't?-I'm sure I will when I right for someone. I don't believe the universe will pair me up with the right one until I'm ready for her. I suspect I've already been around someone who is the one but we're not ready for each other. What do you do on the weekends?-Normal chore like stuff, go out for meet and greets, hang with friend or family or a group...Or...just stay in. I try to keep a good mix going. What's your sex life like?-Active but I'm going to put that to the end based on a scare. A bad end to a date is when I know I can have sex on the first date(do I always do it...no). The woman I'm really into hasn't allowed us to go beyond heavy petting of course, she pushes up and pulls back and says that once she gives in, I'm gone... How often?-enough to get me into trouble but can occur when I start getting sex calls. With whom? Dates? Short R's? F-buddies?-Dates and people from short term relationships that didn't work out but call when they want to hang out and later have sex. I'm trying to figure out why I'm good to get your night of sex but not enough to keep long term thing going. Oh well...at least I have half the battle won. How many partners a year?-This year....enough....With the exception of one, all women I've dated in the past. How do you feel about them?-They're good to talk to about lady problems, but I've closed off my heart to them as far as trying to restart a relationship. They're also good to hang out with and get a drink or something. Is your clock a-tickin?-Probably
Brimstone_Angel Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 ...Where do you meet people? pubs/clubs there really isnt a good dating scene in Ireland unfortunately If you have that sexy Irish accent. You won't need a dating scene... I'd sweep you off your feet real fast. [Yeah, a woman with any accent is a real charmer for me. Oh great! Now I am sounding all girlie. I'll be back, I need to see where I left my sacks at.] ...Do you think you'll find it? What if you don't? he'll find me. its my turn to be loved and adored & I tell ya if that happens Ill give it right back Oh! There you go! Funny running into you hear. :mad:Okay, I really need to stop taking this medication. I am not suppose to be flirty. Damn medicines and their side effects!
openbook08 Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Where do you meet people? on LoveShack it seems!! hee hee top of the mornin to ya BrimstoneAngel you made me laugh
Lizzie60 Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Gender: Female Age: 56 (so.. expect my answers to be quite different ) How long have you been single? about 6 years Are you in love? no How often do you go on dates? not that often Where do you meet people? everywhere Why do your dates fail to progress to an R? I don't want it to progress.. Do you want to be in an R? not at all What are you looking for? just sex Do you think you'll find it? What if you don't? I am not thinking about it.. What do you do on the weekends? shopping (shopholic) visit my grand-daugther, go out with my friends (restaurants, movies, etc.) What's your sex life like? can't complain.. How often? very often With whom? Dates? Short R's? F-buddies? mostly my MMs.. and some F-buddies. How many partners a year? never count them. How do you feel about them? nothing special.. they are just nice people. Is your clock a-tickin? hahaha not at all... my clock never ticked..
pandagirl Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Gender: Female Age: 30 How long have you been single? 4+ years Are you in love? no How often do you go on dates? very seldom Where do you meet people? through friends, online Why do your dates fail to progress to an R? My own emotional inabilities Do you want to be in an R? Only if the right person came along What are you looking for? Laughter, friendship, trust, inspiration. Do you think you'll find it? What if you don't? I'll find it when I'm ready and open to the prospect of love What do you do on the weekends? I tend to socialize more on the weekdays. On the weekends, I rest, brunch, stroll around, see friends. What's your sex life like? Sadly, pretty non-existent. How often? see above! With whom? Dates? Short R's? F-buddies? People I'm dating. How many partners a year? 1 - 2 How do you feel about them? If someone gets to sleep with me, then I really like them. Is your clock a-tickin? I guess so? I do know I want a family, but also, if it's not meant to be, then so be it!
cutegirl Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Gender: Female Age: 30 How long have you been single? Are you in love? No How often do you go on dates? Never, havent been on one for years. I even eat alone in restaurants, I do everything alone. Can't remember the last time I even ate in a restaurant with a guy. Oh I can now. It was my ex. It was over a year ago. He cured me of wanting to date. Ever again. Ever. Where do you meet people? I don't really meet people often. Why do your dates fail to progress to an R? Because I don't date in the first place, and I don't meet men either Do you want to be in an R? No What are you looking for? I don't know. Just to be happy in life I guess. I am content with being alone forever and I am so used to being alone. I don't want a man in my life ever I think. I don't want a bf, don't want a husband. I choose to be alone and die alone. Do you think you'll find it? What if you don't? It doesn't matter either way. We live and we die. Everything is inconsequential either way. What does it matter if we all end up like dust in the end? What do you do on the weekends? Eat out by myself. Go shopping. Watch movies at home. Sometimes watch movies in the theater by myself. What's your sex life like? I don't have one. Celibate How often? 0 times this year With whom? Dates? Short R's? F-buddies? with my vibrator while I watch porn. I think it beats a partner. How many partners a year? 0 How do you feel about them? It's hard to have feelings about people who don't exist Is your clock a-tickin? Nope, don't want kids ever. I'm a rare breed of woman who doesn't want kids.
Nemo Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Do you think you'll find it? What if you don't? It doesn't matter either way. We live and we die. Everything is inconsequential either way. What does it matter if we all end up like dust in the end? I love it when you get all technical.
refurb Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Gender: F Age: 22 Is your clock a-tickin? Yes. That made me laugh. You must live in the mid-west or Utah to think that your clock is ticking at 22. RF
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