anms Posted November 15, 2008 Posted November 15, 2008 Hi! I am 21 year old. Its a quite complex situation here. I have not yet fallen in love or loved any girl still now. Actually I dont really have hook and crook NEED for a girl friend. But now a days sometimes I think I should have one girlfriend too when I see others of my age having more than one. But that girl seekness mentality doesn't last much. (I am kinda workhollic person) But I love to tease/joke people. and make fun of friends. and abviously I am a lot cocky and funny too. Often my friends say that I should get Nobel prize for pulling peoples leg and making fun of them. when I went College for first time first day I ragged a group of final year students LOL.. The above mentioned passage describes HOW AM I Often I've seen due to this fact GIRLS LOVE TO TALK WITH ME. sometimes this has also happened that GIRLS ASKED FOR MY NUMBER FROM MY OTHER FRIENDS. Obviously I belief its true there is a huge difference between LIKE and LOVE and one problem with myself is I LOOK LIKE A KID DUE TO MY FACE . often people say that I look 2 younger that my real age. Thats the problem with me girls like to talk with me meet me. But they dont really love me. thy sends a lot of sms some of them are nice romantic words some of them are asking "what I are you doing", "You took dinner" etc.. But when some other friends ask those girls about me they behaves as I am their cute lovely friend and its "funny If they fall in love with me". Now what to do in this situation.
Geishawhelk Posted November 15, 2008 Posted November 15, 2008 grow a beard. Cut your hair short. When you're young, shorter hair can make you look older. When you're older, it can have the opposite effect.
Author anms Posted November 15, 2008 Author Posted November 15, 2008 But is there any secret to know wheather a girl likes me or loves me ??
Suiyobi Posted November 15, 2008 Posted November 15, 2008 There's no secret dude. Nor is there any magical concoction that'll make girls like you as more than a friend. It's all in your actions and how you treat the girls. If there's one that you're particularly interested in, pursue her just enough so that she realizes you mean "business". One easy way to do this is to flirt with her, gradually get into her personal space, and of course ask her out. As for your face looking young, you should use that to your advantage. In fact, you're already doing it by just being you. Surely you've noticed how easily approachable you are just because of how you look, right?
jayOG Posted November 15, 2008 Posted November 15, 2008 grow a beard. Cut your hair short. When you're young, shorter hair can make you look older. When you're older, it can have the opposite effect. I'm a relatively young and look young, but long hair has always made me look older. Short hair makes me look extremely young. I suppose it depends on the person, but i think we all look younger with a "fresh cut." It's about selling yourself...
kashmir Posted November 15, 2008 Posted November 15, 2008 If we're talking strictly looks, Yeah, grow a beard, or at least go every two weeks or so without shaving. As far as the hair goes, grow it long and push it back until it gets really long. I don't think you should cut it short. Too many guys have short hair. You stand out more with long hair, and you look more mature imo.
lovestruck818 Posted November 15, 2008 Posted November 15, 2008 Hi! I am 21 year old. Its a quite complex situation here. I have not yet fallen in love or loved any girl still now. Actually I dont really have hook and crook NEED for a girl friend. But now a days sometimes I think I should have one girlfriend too when I see others of my age having more than one. But that girl seekness mentality doesn't last much. (I am kinda workhollic person) But I love to tease/joke people. and make fun of friends. and abviously I am a lot cocky and funny too. Often my friends say that I should get Nobel prize for pulling peoples leg and making fun of them. when I went College for first time first day I ragged a group of final year students LOL.. The above mentioned passage describes HOW AM I Often I've seen due to this fact GIRLS LOVE TO TALK WITH ME. sometimes this has also happened that GIRLS ASKED FOR MY NUMBER FROM MY OTHER FRIENDS. Obviously I belief its true there is a huge difference between LIKE and LOVE and one problem with myself is I LOOK LIKE A KID DUE TO MY FACE . often people say that I look 2 younger that my real age. Thats the problem with me girls like to talk with me meet me. But they dont really love me. thy sends a lot of sms some of them are nice romantic words some of them are asking "what I are you doing", "You took dinner" etc.. But when some other friends ask those girls about me they behaves as I am their cute lovely friend and its "funny If they fall in love with me". Now what to do in this situation. I have the same issue...I'm a 26 year old woman but I honestly look like a 12 or 13 year old kid. I dress older, I act older, I wear make-up but I can't help but look young...and to boot, I'm really short. A lot of times younger guys will approach me b/c they think I am their age but in general I don't have too much of a hard time meeting men. I find my biggest challenge comes when I'm in a work-capacity. People generally don't take me seriously upon first meeting me. I really have to work doubly-hard to prove myself.
You'reasian Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 There's no secret dude. Nor is there any magical concoction that'll make girls like you as more than a friend. It's all in your actions and how you treat the girls. If there's one that you're particularly interested in, pursue her just enough so that she realizes you mean "business". One easy way to do this is to flirt with her, gradually get into her personal space, and of course ask her out. As for your face looking young, you should use that to your advantage. In fact, you're already doing it by just being you. Surely you've noticed how easily approachable you are just because of how you look, right? The secret is in Suiyobi's avatar....
Author anms Posted November 16, 2008 Author Posted November 16, 2008 There is a girl who got my number from another friend and first started sending me flirt smss and sms jokes. then she started sharing her family issuies with me it has became a daily chat of 30+ sms per day. e.g. when she bought some tea for her neighbour she sent me an sms "Just returning home, buying tea for neighbour" bla bla. (However she got Free 600 sms and she sent me 300+ sms in 7 days). [Girls do a lot of things except F** just as a friend] Now what does it mean ?? N.B. She also looks Younger like me. thats why I am interested with her.
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