FatChicksLOL Posted November 15, 2008 Posted November 15, 2008 Hi there, So I'm out with some buddies at a pub and this great looking girl comes and sits beside me...we have a great conversation for 20 min. or so. She's asking if I have a girlfriend etc., and showing a lot of interest. On her way out (she was leaving with the friends she came with) she says we should go out sometime and asks me if I want her #...she says "call me tomorrow"..I made a joke about why couldn't I call her next week and she said "because I'd like to talk with you tomorrow"... Normally I would never actually call / text a girl the next day, but I was having a party and thought I'd invite her and a couple friends...I sent off a text just saying hi etc...no response...I followed that with a phone call, and no answer (didn't leave a msg).. My question is....is she playing hard to get and trying to gauge my interest? Was she just trying to see if I'd call her as some sort of ego boost? She definitely has my #, and I know the # she gave me is right as I heard her on the machine....
kashmir Posted November 15, 2008 Posted November 15, 2008 Did you just call her? Give it some time. She could be away from her phone or busy with something else. If she doesn't call back by the afternoon, I'd say it was all just a game she was playing for an ego boost. Women do this constantly. Though it's puzzling, you can't really expect anything to come out of even the most seemingly positive encounters, because they usually turn out like this.
allina Posted November 15, 2008 Posted November 15, 2008 Why didn't you just leave a message like most people would do?
Author FatChicksLOL Posted November 16, 2008 Author Posted November 16, 2008 I have a personal policy of not leaving messages on the first call with girls.
kashmir Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Hardly anyone I know leaves voicemails. I'm assuming she didn't call you, then?
DunnoWhat Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 She's testing you waiting to see how long before you call back again. Don't call her back for at least a few days.
Author FatChicksLOL Posted November 17, 2008 Author Posted November 17, 2008 so it's more of a test than an ego thing in your opinion? i'm definitely going to wait a couple weeks before i try calling her again.
allina Posted November 18, 2008 Posted November 18, 2008 so it's more of a test than an ego thing in your opinion? i'm definitely going to wait a couple weeks before i try calling her again. I'm sorry but that's stupid. Why in the world would she remember who you are after weeks? Instead of trying to look cool you should have left her a voice mail like any other grown man would.
DunnoWhat Posted November 18, 2008 Posted November 18, 2008 so it's more of a test than an ego thing in your opinion? i'm definitely going to wait a couple weeks before i try calling her again. Wait a few days.
Author FatChicksLOL Posted November 18, 2008 Author Posted November 18, 2008 Trust, she will remember me. Not only am I a stud, but she obviously had a high interest level to ask ME out...reverse the situation...if you ask out a girl, you'll remember who she is 2 weeks later...I'm assuming her memory is better than that of a 3 year old.... Also, by waiting the extra time it's only going to raise her interest level ....it leaves her wondering why I'm not like all the other clowns who called her 7 times the next day.
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