SushiX Posted November 15, 2008 Posted November 15, 2008 Ok this my be weird for some of you, but I met her on myspace. We've been talking all night for about 2 weeks. I admire everything about her. She's everything I'm looking for and more. Looks, personality, smarts and all that. I want to meet her soon but she wants to wait another 2 weeks to know me better. One night I told her I think I'm falling for her. But she says she can only see me as a friend now because we haven't met yet. She's seen many pictures of me but says it may not be the same when we meet in person. And the chemistry we have on the phone may not be the same either. I don't understand her because I look exactly the same in person as I do in all my pictures. So my question is would she still like me if she doesn't feel the chemistry when we meet in person? And could she fall for me as I've fallen for her even before we meet? Has this happened to you?
jayOG Posted November 15, 2008 Posted November 15, 2008 You ooze of desperation. That girl is obviously together, because she is actually concerned for her well being and the fact that she barely knows you. If she wasn't concerned I would be very concerned about her intentions... I know this girl that never met this guy and she fell deeply in love with him. Of course it was through myspace... It was ridiculous he sent her plane tickets and all this nonsense. I straight up told her if she pursued this dude I would never speak to her again. Honestly she was nuts and he was nuts (didn't work out). You don't even know each other. Pictures are silly. I mean seriously. If you spoke to me online or on the phone I could pretend to be anyone. It's absurd. "Let's face it, it's a sad situation when we have to resort to keyboards as a means of making relations" Gym Class Heroes New Friend Request
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted November 15, 2008 Posted November 15, 2008 Pictures mean nothing. Chemistry is more than looks. You have seen a snapshot of this girls life and you have fallen for a fantasy. You don't know her so you have filled in the blanks. You are bound for disappointment, because even if you still feel it for her and she feels it for you, you don't know her very well and there could very likely be things about her you really don't like. I'm not saying don't meet with her, but I am saying to calm down a little and reign in those emotions.
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