Ignorant&Innocent Posted November 15, 2008 Posted November 15, 2008 It seems like every time I'm interested in a girl she already has a boyfriend. I know it sounds awful, but should I still try to win them over? what am I saying THATS TERRIBLE! but what other choice do I have. The good ones are always already taken. It's only a high school relationship...they can't be that serious....
jinx55 Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 I am in the same situation as you other than the fact that I am in college. My best answer for you is there are plenty of single girls who are "good" for you and that you are interested in. I am being a hypocrite here in my advice but if think the risk of getting her outweighs you getting beat up possibly or losing the respect of some people then go for it. I guess it depends, but you maybe are just looking for the thrill of stealing another girl, or maybe you just haven't seen the other possible girls out there. My question to you is, how many of these girls are you interested in that have a bf already, if it is just one or two or is it more than that? The answer to that question makes a huge difference in my opinion on how you should approach this.
Geishawhelk Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 It's only a high school relationship...they can't be that serious.... You're right. They're not. So neither will yours be. Concentrate on your studies. Having emotional ties during study time is a distraction and a no-win situation.
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