Author Jay34 Posted November 21, 2008 Author Posted November 21, 2008 she finally messaged me and apologized, but not a real apology, then she lied about not seeing my calls, my friend called her about 15 minutes after from a different # and she picked right up, she is extremely manipulative, i called her again tonight and i figure if i don't get a response my tomarrow, i will just delete her totally from my life, i know she saw the call, i know it's all games, its going to be hard to move on because she was my first real love, but i can't see a way back from this. all i see is the death of this relationship, she has done nothing to repair it, to be honest if it was just that kiss and she had totally done whatever it took for forgiveness i would never even think about it, but it's everything else she does that makes it 100 times worse, how can you treat someone you love like such ****.
Charles1978 Posted November 21, 2008 Posted November 21, 2008 Tell ya what Jay... best thing you can do is move on. There's a better one out there, believe me. Keep your head up and find someone else.
Author Jay34 Posted November 21, 2008 Author Posted November 21, 2008 today i had some home problems, and i really needed some guidance and i know it wasn't a good idea but she's the only one i tell much, so i called her 3-4 times, i know very stupid, and then left her a message how she is never there when i need her, and pretty much put a period to everything, i doubt i will hear from her, but i'm not shocked, i'm kinda ashamed i even told her anything, but even then she didn't call me back. i guess you really do find out about people when times are tough, i got into a relationship with a manipulative lier, as time has gone on i have uncovered it all, but it is still so damn hard to break away, and even after i do, i'm afraid she will come back in 3-4 weeks maybe less, until of course she find's someone else which i'm sure as she is is pursuing every angle she can go, what can i do to move on without all this pain, because i know in reality the relationship was over 3 months ago, i mean eventually i could see us meeting up again when we are older but for right now i would love to be able to move on with the least amount of hurt, would it be best to just go no contact all the way, delete everything i know of her and just let things work themselves out
Dexter Morgan Posted November 21, 2008 Posted November 21, 2008 she finally messaged me and apologized, but not a real apology, then she lied about not seeing my calls. Nuff said, cut your losses and cancel this tart.
Author Jay34 Posted November 21, 2008 Author Posted November 21, 2008 i have decided she is done, theres no way in hell she is worth all this trouble, she will be calling me in no time once she realizes i mean business and by that time she won't be able to, because im going extreme. im deleting her from everything, all mutual friends, all everything, phone, myspace, w/e, im going to be dead to her, or i was thinking not even delete her, leave her on everything and just never log on, maybe she will think im dead, even better then in 6 months i'll tell her i just woke up from my coma )
ladyintights Posted November 21, 2008 Posted November 21, 2008 Sounds like a ld relationship i had with a guy when i was 16. I too was angry he had a fling with some gal although he was states apart from me.
Author Jay34 Posted November 23, 2008 Author Posted November 23, 2008 the manipulation starts again, now she has put a picture up of her and another guy, pretty low, but surprisingly i'm not upset, im happy, because i know exactly what she wants, a reaction, it's just her friend but i know exactly why she did it, better to find out now than later
UnamedSeven Posted November 28, 2008 Posted November 28, 2008 i have decided she is done, theres no way in hell she is worth all this trouble, she will be calling me in no time once she realizes i mean business and by that time she won't be able to, because im going extreme. im deleting her from everything, all mutual friends, all everything, phone, myspace, w/e, im going to be dead to her, or i was thinking not even delete her, leave her on everything and just never log on, maybe she will think im dead, even better then in 6 months i'll tell her i just woke up from my coma ) Hahaha. Good plan. Seems your final with this? i would have done the same thing. I realized that when a girl goes beyond the point where she has given me enough B.S. i will just cut everything, at the throat. You need to move on, and she doesn't deserve you. The only thing she deserves is to feel terrible because of what she did to you.
online dating Posted November 28, 2008 Posted November 28, 2008 better you move on man. better maintain distance for such persons
Gremio Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 Always remember the following saying: "You judge a person by their actions and not by their words." If you remember this saying it will always tell you what to do. Agreed. Get rid of her NOW. Trust me on this. Been through something similar before, but IRL.
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