Baron Flame Posted November 14, 2008 Posted November 14, 2008 Okay , ummm dunno where to start …….the thing is that there is this girl in my class, we just became friends through another friend of mine. We first started chatting on the net and talk about everything and are very frank with each other, and there are tones of thing that are common among us…..now I dunno when it happened or how it happened , but I think that I have fallen in love with this girl. Now , now I know what you all might be thinking …stupid guy ..Mistaking a crush for love…yata yata yata…etc; but here’s the thing that I have been through a fair share of crushes and limerances too, although I have never asked any girl out b4, but I know what it feels like to be in a crush. But this time its not like that at all, my feeling are so simple yet so strong and complex……….i mean I want to be with her all the time, I just want to hold her in my arms and kiss her even if that’s the last thing I do…when I am awake I think of her, when I am sleeping I dream of her, she seems to be everywhere , everywhere. I wanna ask her out so badly but I think that there’s a high possibility that it’ll be a no but then again I cannot bear the thought of living without her. .plus we have a very good thing going on as friends and I think that I’ll ruin it if I ask her out……..i am so bloody confused right now…. I want to make her mine but I cant bear the thought of loosing her incase I screw up …. I have always been confident of what to do and all that but at this point I have no idea what to do ……………………. Losing her is not an option for me since I know that I’ll sink into a depression for sure and end up going mad or something….. and the very though that I wont be able to tell her how I feel is unbearable for me and moreover I am in 12 grade and we have only a few months left of this term and that on top of all I’ve just told you is killing me , its literally ripping my heart to shreds…I feel like my whole world is crumbling and is falling down on me burdening me with a emotion and feeling that I cant handle …………………I don’t know what to do ……………help me ….. I implore you…help me…
UnamedSeven Posted November 18, 2008 Posted November 18, 2008 Well, everybody has to be able to believe in themselves to do whatever it is that they want. If you want to have something more with this girl, then you will have to ask her out. As risky as this is, there isn't much else that can be done. time will change everything if you tell her or not and from what you sound like, i wouldn't pass up this opportunity for a second!
lashyr Posted November 24, 2008 Posted November 24, 2008 The thing is you will never know if you don't take the risk. If you have tons of things in common perhaps she is waiting for you to make a move. There is a literal 50/50 chance of her saying yes or no. Now you get to ask yourself do you want to wonder what would have happened if you did make a move? Or would you like to take the risk then go from there? There are ways to figure out if she likes you, does she giggle at your jokes whether they are good or not? does she make eye contact and smile, or quickly smile and look away? Has she talked about you to your mutual friend? You can always ask her if she has ever thought about you as more than a friend? It's a benign enough question that even if she only likes you as a friend it shouldn't sent her running. I guess no gut no glory.
Patrick Bemah Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 I just text you know to know whether you are keeping in touch and to say I love you deeply from my heart.
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