nab0610 Posted November 14, 2008 Posted November 14, 2008 ok so theres this girl i met 2-3 weeks ago well she's hung out over at the apartment with me and my roommate for the last 4-5 nights except for 1 we've had some alone time together and some slight flirting but nothing more than that the other night she added me on facebook and we got to talking...i don't remember exactly how the conversation went but i believe she asked me if my roommate had added her on facebook and i said i dunno i'm not sure...then a few comments later she said asked me if he liked her and i said yes...then she was like crap conversation went on for a little while longer and i told her don't worry he's not really the type of guy to ask a girl out or try to make a move (hasn't had a girlfriend in about 4 years much less a date)...then the subject changed and continued on for a while longer well she calls/texts me not him and it was that way before we had the conversation...what do you think if i just showed up on her doorstep knocked on her door and asked her out? or should i play the waiting game a little bit more?
eric82 Posted November 14, 2008 Posted November 14, 2008 she hung out at your place several times, added you on facebook, called/texted you, and dropped hints about other guys liking her... dude what more do you want? there's nothing random about it, she's into you. go get her.
prettybaby Posted November 14, 2008 Posted November 14, 2008 Yeah, why show up at her door? That's a little too unexpected in my opinion. I hate when guys do that. I'd much rather get a phone call, e-mail or text message.
prettybaby Posted November 14, 2008 Posted November 14, 2008 Yeah, I suppose a phone call would be best. As far as I'm concerned, I'm not too picky lol If a guy asks me out, I don't care how he goes about it. Well, unless he unexpectedly shows up at my door, cuz, yeah, no.
kashmir Posted November 14, 2008 Posted November 14, 2008 I'm not sure about her liking you in that way. Girls will tend to totally avoid talking about other guys in the presence of guys they like. Even though it was just her asking if your roommate likes her and then responding negatively to it, I still think if she really liked you she wouldn't bring it up at all. Then again, she's been spending a lot of time at your place, but I have some girls who do that and they're just friends.
kashmir Posted November 15, 2008 Posted November 15, 2008 Prettybaby, only if every girl was pragmatic as you. Kashmir, be careful not to generalize, there are girls who will use the interest of another guy to gauge a reaction from the guy they are interested in. You could be right, but the poster won’t know until he asks her on a date will he? Maybe it's just me who's not tolerant in that respect. I don't say anything about other girls in the presence of a girl I like, and I expect her to do the same. Last thing I want to hear is her talk about her relations with other guys. As soon as that's said, I bail.
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