brandenx781 Posted November 14, 2008 Posted November 14, 2008 Well theres this girl that I want to hug and i have to time to surprise hug and etc. In the morning shes busy at her locker getting her stuff read. Then we have classes. Then, at recess/Lunch she has her backpack on her so how can i hug her? Like its hard finding a way to hug this girl. And she also goes on 1st bus. I walk home. She takes the bus. So, we can't hug after school or anything. And what should I do if she pulls away? She talks to people at recess and at lunch. At our lockers again, we don't have like a long hug you know? We just have a power hug and then we go back to class. Can anyone help? Shes not like my girlfriend but she is my friend.
ashleigh422 Posted December 1, 2008 Posted December 1, 2008 I had to be the bear of bad news.. but seriously.. how old are you? compared to the other questions and problems people face on here.. why would ask this? Firstly.. IF you plan your timing for a hug... how pathetic.. it shouldn't need to be planned. If you are friends only.. then why do you need to hug her? Unless you like her.. and say youre in highschool.. perhaps it's time to grow up... just a smidge.. If a long hug is what you want.. lol.. versus a "power" hug.. then tell her sometime when you are talking to her.. say on the phone.. I tell you all of this with an hier of caution.. perhaps your feelings are one sided- With a few exceptions.. if she was interested in more than being friends.. she'd probably make time for a hug/flirt session with you on her lunch/recess... Recess huh? Perhaps you are still in Junior high.. in that case... I can't think of any advice to give you... other than just do it.
Ronni_W Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 The truth is that girls do not like "surprise hugs" unless they've already expressed to the guy that they want the guy to give them surprise hugs. Pouncing on women just to satisfy your own needs is not, ever going to be a good idea. From today until you die, promise yourself to not set yourself up for the consequences of doing that -- which can range from the girl NEVER speaking with you again, to you getting in trouble for inappropriate touching (sexual harassment/assault.) Asking her if it would be okay to hug her is your ONLY option. You must obtain permission BEFORE you touch other people, especially when there is even the smallest chance of it being interpreted as sexual touch. (Excluding contact sports, of course -- sports-specific touching is expected in the normal course of it.) Seriously.
huggies Posted December 5, 2008 Posted December 5, 2008 I like hugs! I don't think you should worry about the timing. Just do it. No good deed is ever wasted.
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