Owl Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 Remember that recovery is a marathon run...it's not a sprint to the finish. There's no expectation (or there darn sure shouldn't be) that you're going to be "over this" in a week...or a month...or, even a year. It typically takes about two years if everything goes right before you'll really feel "recovered". So don't feel bad about not knowing where your heart is at at the moment...this is normal for the stage you're in. Just hang in there, keep doing the right things, and give him the chance. See what happens from there!
beyondsad Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 So very true OWL- at 12 weeks I am still in recovery mode no where near where I want to be. I still think sometimes this is more than I can bear but then I still want my H too. Never in a million years would I think R would be this hard but it is. Wait til you run into the OW then everything starts fresh again. Your H truly sounds like he is trying to start over. My husband loves me but he wants everything to just be OK and it is not and won't be for a long time. What a delima we are all in - if only we could have our mind erased and forever eliminate this pain. I hope it goes away soon.
You'reasian Posted December 2, 2008 Posted December 2, 2008 Regarding the original post: you mean it isn't normal for father-daughter figures to flirt, trade dirty pictures and share important life decisions with one another? I've had invdivuals fight tooth and nail to convince me that this is normal behavior...
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