wildsoul Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 Your H discovers this after you have been lying in MC - no chance of survival. We all realize that you will naturally lie to hide the A. But to lie in MC? When trying to heal rifts? To know and say nothing in MC? How can you heal and continue to lie? That betrayal will be insurmountable in my eyes. I agree tenfold. My brother and his wife were in MC because things were bad. Not really getting a lot of value from the counselling, they took a break (wanting to save $ too.) Then he found out that she'd been cheating on him while they were in MC. It was the ultimate injury, because he was sincerely trying to work things through in MC, but her lies impeded all progress.
Owl Posted November 19, 2008 Posted November 19, 2008 Exactly...you can't rebuild a marriage on the foundation of a lie.
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