Man, just my luck. The new girl has a BF

[foxh1234]

Hi folks, just an update- I had been on a great date with a nice young lady on Saturday night. We went out again Tuesday night and she slept over again. I went to pick her up tonight and I was maybe 10 minutes early and her BF was there !!! He was pretty pissed at her that she was seeing me and him. I didn't say much except don't call me again. Man, I've got the worst luck, lol. I knew she was too young. Anyway, back to the coping board for me, enough with dating right now. I felt terrible for the other guy.

[lofi_tokyo]

Aww man FOX! That is lame!!! For both you, and her main man. Unreal! Dating is for the birds ;p yuck

[northstar1]

Hi folks, just an update- I had been on a great date with a nice young lady on Saturday night. We went out again Tuesday night and she slept over again. I went to pick her up tonight and I was maybe 10 minutes early and her BF was there !!! He was pretty pissed at her that she was seeing me and him. I didn't say much except don't call me again. Man, I've got the worst luck, lol. I knew she was too young. Anyway, back to the coping board for me, enough with dating right now. I felt terrible for the other guy.

 

Jesus Fox, a guy can't catch a break !!. It really isn't our year for relationships is it? I guess the one good thing is you found out pretty damn early on that this girl is not all that moral , before you'd gotten attached.

 

And yeah, girls at that age frequently don't know what they want = fickle.

[carhill]

I hope you know it was planned that way. She's got a grasp on a totally different branch

 

Hey, why not try some older ladies. You might find them a bit more honest.

[foxh1234]

I'm laughing at myself now, it has been a crappy year this 2008. I will never forget this crazy year. As I said earlier, I feel bad for the other guy. He seemed really freaked out. Not at me, but at her. I quickly explained things to him and then told her to never call me again and then left. I was going to take her to a really nice restaurant, so at least I saved the couple of hundred bucks, lol. No more 25 year olds, I want a more mature lady. I am going to take a break from dating for awhile after this. Bad luck man, lol.

[lofi_tokyo]

I'm laughing at myself now, it has been a crappy year this 2008. I will never forget this crazy year. As I said earlier, I feel bad for the other guy. He seemed really freaked out. Not at me, but at her. I quickly explained things to him and then told her to never call me again and then left. I was going to take her to a really nice restaurant, so at least I saved the couple of hundred bucks, lol. No more 25 year olds, I want a more mature lady. I am going to take a break from dating for awhile after this. Bad luck man, lol.

 

 

Good news is, 2008 is ALMOST OVER! Hurrah! On to 2009!

[foxh1234]

I hope you know it was planned that way. She's got a grasp on a totally different branch

 

Hey, why not try some older ladies. You might find them a bit more honest.

 

Hi carhill, I am done with the young immature ones for sure. I had a funny feeling about her and I should have trusted my gut.

[foxh1234]

Good news is, 2008 is ALMOST OVER! Hurrah! On to 2009!

 

It has to be better. 2009 will be a great year for alot of us. I really believe that.

[carhill]

Interesting that language of the gut is. The life process is learning to interpret it. Happy to hear you're further along the path. Some days (and years) are better than others. Here's to hoping better for you

[foxh1234]

Interesting that language of the gut is. The life process is learning to interpret it. Happy to hear you're further along the path. Some days (and years) are better than others. Here's to hoping better for you

 

Thanks carhill. Next year has to be better, it couldn't be worse. I will listen to the gut from now on. It normally turns out to be right.

[northstar1]

Hi carhill, I am done with the young immature ones for sure. I had a funny feeling about her and I should have trusted my gut.

 

Yeah, the fickleness and immaturity is not worth the looks.

[foxh1234]

Yeah, the fickleness and immaturity is not worth the looks.

 

Is it too much to ask for a nice lady that doesn't have a friggin BF ? Of all the women out there, this seems crazy. The funniest part is I met her through a friend and she didn't know she had a BF either, lol. This guy must have been a well kept secret.

[carhill]

Hey, maybe he thought you were the BF....

[foxh1234]

Hey, maybe he thought you were the BF....

 

Ha Ha, no he knew exactly what was going on. I explained and he knew she was playing us. She just sat there looking guilty and embarrassed. I hope he dumps her. Boy, you can't judge a book by its cover, she really seemed sincere and honest. Anyway, I'm over it and moving forward.

[northstar1]

Is it too much to ask for a nice lady that doesn't have a friggin BF ? Of all the women out there, this seems crazy. The funniest part is I met her through a friend and she didn't know she had a BF either, lol. This guy must have been a well kept secret.

 

It appers to be so

This really has been a rubbish year. Sometimes I feel someone is playing a bad joke on me. Somehow I've gotten some bad karma.

Bring on 2009

[Peter_pan]

omg, sorry to hear that fox. bloody hell. !! well you did the right thing. thats nuts. sounds like he was a very good secret

 

im with everyone here that 09 will be better. i can feel it.

 

ROLL ON 2009 OOHHHH YEAH

[ioncebelieved]

Damn Fox!!! You have luck like I do! It is unbelievable that these kind of people walk around and breathe the same air as us decent folks. Did her man try and start any static because of this?

 

I usually have the drunks and married women find me, so I know what state of mind you are in. How horrible!! I am assuming that since she slept over that you two did more than have pillow fights if you know what I mean.

 

That is among the many reasons I have just stepped back from dating for a while.

[foxh1234]

Damn Fox!!! You have luck like I do! It is unbelievable that these kind of people walk around and breathe the same air as us decent folks. Did her man try and start any static because of this?

 

I usually have the drunks and married women find me, so I know what state of mind you are in. How horrible!! I am assuming that since she slept over that you two did more than have pillow fights if you know what I mean.

 

That is among the many reasons I have just stepped back from dating for a while.

 

Hi IOB. It is laughable how bad my luck is running right now, lol. Here's how it went down, I drove over and parked on the street and walked up to the door. He answered and seemed to think I was a salesman as he said not interested. I said no, I'm here to pick up ..... He said why the hell would you be pickingup my GF ? I stepped back and said I didn't know she had a BF, I have dated her twice and this was going to be the third. he then turned away from the door and walked over to her sitting on the couch. They started arguing and I simply interjected and said to him that I was very sorry and I had no idea as she obviously was playing me. I told her thanks for nothing and don't call again. I then turned and hit the roadnot looking back.

 

As you know, I have been out of the dating scene for 8 years and so far I have dated a crazy lady that freaked out in a restaurant, a couple of man hating ladies that I bought a nice dinnerand now I date a two timing cheater. Eh......... I guess that makes me 0 for 4.

 

As I said yesterday, I'm going to take a little break until I go away in Dec.

[Crazy.S]

don't worry your 5th time will be your charm

[northstar1]

Hi IOB. It is laughable how bad my luck is running right now, lol. Here's how it went down, I drove over and parked on the street and walked up to the door. He answered and seemed to think I was a salesman as he said not interested. I said no, I'm here to pick up ..... He said why the hell would you be pickingup my GF ? I stepped back and said I didn't know she had a BF, I have dated her twice and this was going to be the third. he then turned away from the door and walked over to her sitting on the couch. They started arguing and I simply interjected and said to him that I was very sorry and I had no idea as she obviously was playing me. I told her thanks for nothing and don't call again. I then turned and hit the roadnot looking back.

 

As you know, I have been out of the dating scene for 8 years and so far I have dated a crazy lady that freaked out in a restaurant, a couple of man hating ladies that I bought a nice dinnerand now I date a two timing cheater. Eh......... I guess that makes me 0 for 4.

 

As I said yesterday, I'm going to take a little break until I go away in Dec.

 

Yeah, might as well reset the dating thing until 2009.

[foxh1234]

don't worry your 5th time will be your charm

 

Thanks C, I hope your right.

[foxh1234]

Yeah, might as well reset the dating thing until 2009.

 

Hey North, I am going away on vacation in Dec and won't be back until the new year. I am not going to date locally until then. I might meet a few nice ladies in jamaica though.

 

2009 will be a great year. Hopefully all of us here will find the happiness that we seek. Here's to hoping, cheers.

[Dexter Morgan]

Hi folks, just an update- I had been on a great date with a nice young lady on Saturday night. We went out again Tuesday night and she slept over again. I went to pick her up tonight and I was maybe 10 minutes early and her BF was there !!! He was pretty pissed at her that she was seeing me and him. I didn't say much except don't call me again. Man, I've got the worst luck, lol. I knew she was too young. Anyway, back to the coping board for me, enough with dating right now. I felt terrible for the other guy.

 

So you went out on a date with her, she slept over, AND has a boyfriend?

 

I wouldn't bother with her. She obviously is a cheater and can't be trusted. She'll do it to you too if you ended up being her bf in the future.

 

As far as feeling terrible for the other guy, you could help a fellow brother out and let him know what has been going on. He deserves to know his gf is a louse.

[CaliGuy]

Fox, this is weird. Why would she have you pick her up at her house if she was dating someone? That is just odd. I mean, she can't be that clueless, can she???

[foxh1234]

Fox, this is weird. Why would she have you pick her up at her house if she was dating someone? That is just odd. I mean, she can't be that clueless, can she???

 

Hey Cali, I picked her up there on Tuesday night as well and dropped her off the next morning. Maybe he was out of town for a week or so, or he doesn't live in our city. I have no idea, I was a few minutes early also. maybe she had us both timed perfectly and I screwed it up. I am just as confused as you are, believe me. Anyway, bottom line is I found out after 2 dates and sleeping together once. I am over it already actually. I do hope the BF dumps her sorry butt though.