replicator Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 Trust me - guys are dying for an opportunity to approach a girl. Just that 99% of us are too scared of rejection to make the move. Just a smile and eye contact is enough to push over a confident guy to approach you. I think most guys just don't know what to say to a girl they just see because they don't want to seem to shallow (based only on looks) or desperate. Not easy for us - but yes, no guy I know would not be flattered if a girl approached him (as long as she wasn't an ogre - and by your pics - you're quite the opposite).
orangehose Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 I think the best policy, as much as it absolutely sucks, is to not put too much stock on random encounters, but to definitely keep yourself open to it if the occasion arises, like if someone's reading a book in a bookstore that you like (does that make sense)? But you're in college, so you can at least start by making more friends on campus, its a less threatening environment. I have to agree on the whole random encounter thing. I actually don't know of any relationships that have started by meeting at a supermarket or hardware store or what have you... Sure, might as well keep an open mind while doing one's errands, but by and large, most relationships that I've witnessed have started through school or workplace situations, or other situations that foster repeat exposures to the same people.
Bells Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 So it is often really simple. Most guys are more than happy to talk to girls, and I find it attractive for a girl to initiate a conversation. It is different... sets them apart. It's a big plus in my book. . Unfortunately, most single women are completely turned off by it.
Perry Posted November 22, 2008 Posted November 22, 2008 The smile and the look in the eyes does work, if it is moved up a notch. Give him that look of interest, and then, in a shy way, look down and away. And then look back up at him again. You know the look. If he looks back, repeat the look. If you are close enough, say "hi." All he needs is a green light, and what bigger green light is there than that? If he doesn't turn back on his heels, so what, just keep on walking or go about what you were doing. You smile and say hello to women you pass out in public, right? So, it is sort of like that, but it is moved up a notch. Just think of it that way.
Author lofi_tokyo Posted November 22, 2008 Author Posted November 22, 2008 Awesome description of the technique Perry! It sounds sexy just thinking of it in my head. I'll try that one out.
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