tomtom26 Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 I have taken interest in this new girl and I need some much needed advice. Here are the facts - I’m 25, she’s 22 - She hasn’t had a real BF in the past as I remember it. She is looking for what has been described to me as a “husband” type. I’ve heard through the grapevine that she’s not into just dating around with guys. - She’s the very innocent looking type, and I think she really is - Very sweet girl - Seems very caring, considerate, a take home to your mom kind of girl. - She knows of me and we have hung out a few times, but she doesn’t KNOW me. So we are working on a committee together for an event that is coming up in two weeks, so I’ll run into her on a semi-constant basis over that period. I want to build something with her so she gets to know me. I know for sure that I’ll be around her for two more weeks. What do I do? Do I ask her out after two weeks? Do I try to build a foundation, but how if I don’t see her? Any suggestions from past experiences? I need some advice!!
UnamedSeven Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 It may be alot easier for you, to get as close as you could to her, without doing anything major, up until the end of the 2 weeks. If you builded up a good amount of a friendship, then you could tell her that you and her should hang out more often. Certainly, she won't say no. Its just a way to keep in contact, after the 2 weeks. Somewheres around the Holidays, you can invite her to your place to celebrate Christmas or go out to dinner, if your feeling bold By then, i'm sure she would know a good amount about you and things can go from there
Green Posted November 16, 2008 Posted November 16, 2008 seriously it doesn't feel like that big of a move to just ask her to a Barbq your going to or what ever. Just invite her along to something fun your doing and then get touchy, and then kiss her
casanovacorner Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 It may be alot easier for you, to get as close as you could to her, without doing anything major, up until the end of the 2 weeks. If you builded up a good amount of a friendship, then you could tell her that you and her should hang out more often. Certainly, she won't say no. Its just a way to keep in contact, after the 2 weeks. Somewheres around the Holidays, you can invite her to your place to celebrate Christmas or go out to dinner, if your feeling bold By then, i'm sure she would know a good amount about you and things can go from there This is good advice. Shy girls are usually the easiest girls to make a move on. All you have to do is get to know them and be friendly. They are also the freakiest women on the planet. Good luck with it. Don't move to fast though, or she'll get nervous and blow you off.
UnamedSeven Posted November 17, 2008 Posted November 17, 2008 Yeah, basically, just take things slow or keep a steady pace. So that things won't be confusing ya know?
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