alwayssme Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 im still not completely over my ex... currently having some type of feelings for someone else...who has hurt me in the past...however this time he said he's different and that things have changed...but he has said this before and things didnt change...yet i'm giving him a chance because i like him as a person and i'm attracted to him...i'm afraid he might hurt me again...such as tell me one thing then do the complete opposite...or disappear on me out of the blue...i'm not in love with him so i wouldnt be devastated on normal circumstances but since im still not healed, im afraid i would feel rejected and hurt if he does me wrong. Yet I'm still giving it a chance.......Am I setting myself up to get hurt again?
lofi_tokyo Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 HOLY! Similar situation for me (kinda). A guy from my past who is not really an ex per-say, but definitely had something with me came back onto the radar! Its so easy to pretend things could happen between him and I because I know the guy, we have a descent history, and yeah, its a comfort zone! Hes known for breaking girls hearts, which I figure is fine because my heart is not really ready to be vulnerable again, so he couldn't smash it. Good times for all. Except hes not interested. I mean, I could try and push myself into his life, I'd probably meet some degree of success, I know how to push his buttons and what makes him tick, but it kind of seems pointless because... as I am accepting things are over with my most recent ex, I am also realizing there is no second chance with this guy. If I was new onto his scene, he'd make a move no doubt, but he knows me, I know him, we know eachothers game, its not the same! *** Oh and! I wasn't hurt by his rejection... I was scared I would be but I'm totally not. lol. If anything it was kind of a reminder "okay Tokyo, get your **** together, you're doing just find on your own, stop being crazy". ;p So I don't know if you're really setting yourself up for hurt, so much as setting yourself up to go... nowhere lol
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