tomtom26 Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 I have taken interest in this new girl and I need some much needed advice. Here are the facts - I’m 25, she’s 22 - She hasn’t had a real BF in the past as I remember it. She is looking for what has been described to me as a “husband” type. I’ve heard through the grapevine that she’s not into just dating around with guys. - She’s the very innocent looking type, and I think she really is - Very sweet girl - Seems very caring, considerate, a take home to your mom kind of girl. - She knows of me and we have hung out a few times, but she doesn’t KNOW me. So we are working on a committee together for an event that is coming up in two weeks, so I’ll run into her on a semi-constant basis over that period. I want to build something with her so she gets to know me. I know for sure that I’ll be around her for two more weeks. What do I do? Do I ask her out after two weeks? Do I try to build a foundation, but how if I don’t see her? Any suggestions from past experiences? I need some advice!!
BubblyPopcorn Posted November 14, 2008 Posted November 14, 2008 Since your working on the committee thing together, try to get it so that it’s just you and her. Joke around with her, be playful, flirty, etc. but also show her you have a genuine interest in wanting to know more about her and vice versa. Share some of your interests with her and also ask her questions about herself too so she sees that you are interested in knowing more about her. Your both very young so the “rules” are probably different and you will hear mixed advice, suggestions, etc., so take it all with a grain a salt and figure out what works best for you, her, etc.
carhill Posted November 14, 2008 Posted November 14, 2008 What exactly does "taken interest" mean? Do you find yourself looking at her without a reason to? Thinking about her when she's not around? That's called attraction.... Ask her out. There's a reason for every energy.
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