Having a hard time attracting men, what can I do to improve my looks?? Pic available

[Blackfrost]

I think you look fantastic! I'd go out with you.....if my wife would let me

[whichwayisup]

You're stunning! In all honesty, just work on your self confidence. You are beautiful and also have smooth nice skin!

[whichwayisup]

I am korean, and I have always been insecure about my asian eyelids

 

Don't change who you are. I mean, if I lived in an Asian country, looked different than many of those around me, I would leave my eyes alone - Because the look and the shape of my eyelids are who I AM. Please, don't change this aspect of you, it's what makes you unique and it's who you are. Be proud of your heritage!

[Meaplus3]

Always remeber it's what's on the inside that counts the most. With that you've got it all.

 

AP:)

[JamesM]

Always remeber it's what's on the inside that counts the most. With that you've got it all.

 

AP:)

 

I would like to expand this.

 

It is not just what is on the inside that counts but rather, how you express it on the outside.

 

Looks may attract, but personality and attitude keep someone interested.

 

So, I agree...it is not your looks. What else could it be, do you think?

[jerbear]

So, I agree...it is not your looks. What else could it be, do you think?

iPod....

 

She walks down the street, goes to the gym, waits at the bar, etc... if a guy saw her listening to her iPod. Their first reaction is, she does not want to be bothered.

[Dexter Morgan]

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I seem to have a hard time attracting attention from the opposite sex. It seems like I have a real hard time finding a date. So i'm left to assume it has to do with my outward appearance. Please let know what I can do to improve my looks.

 

THank you!

 

PS I am new to this site! So friendly advice only please!

 

Don't know. I think you are attractive as hell!

 

If I only had one suggestion, it would be to style your hair a little. Don't know how, just try something new.

[carhill]

if a guy saw her listening to her iPod. Their first reaction is, she does not want to be bothered.

 

She's in her bathroom, it appears. OP, you don't interact with guys with your earbuds in, do you?

 

If I only had one suggestion, it would be to style your hair a little. Don't know how, just try something new.

 

Perfect length, right down to her bust. Pony tails on Asian girls are just, well, sexy. Try that. Also, try some really fine highlights (in your hair) to accentuate your coloring.

[JamesM]

Don't know. I think you are attractive as hell!

 

 

Is that a compliment...to be considered as attractive as hell?

 

Hell is usually not considered a good place. In fact, people usually say "you look like hell"...meaning you look awful.

[Geishawhelk]

Ah no.. not another thread..

 

Methink you know very well that you are good looking.. you just need people to tell you over and over..

 

nothing wrong with your looks... maybe something wrong with your personality..

 

I'm just thinking at a tangent here.... The OP may have a mild case of BDD....

 

People with a disorder in which they are convinced they are ugly have a brain glitch when processing things they see, researchers said on Monday.

 

The findings, published in the journal Archives of General Psychiatry, shed light on body dysmorphic disorder, marked by a dramatically distorted self-image and obsessive thoughts about imagined or minor defects in their appearance.

 

An estimated 1 to 2 percent of people around the world have this condition, also called BDD, according to Dr. Jamie Feusner, a professor of psychiatry at the University of California at Los Angeles who led the research.

 

Some undergo repeated cosmetic surgery procedures in a futile attempts to fix the problems.

 

The cause of the disorder remains unknown, with experts suspecting that a variety of factors may contribute, from genetics to upbringing.

 

Google BDD or Body Dysmorphic Disorder.....

 

Who can tell?

[carhill]

I think we'd need more poster history to make a confirmed dx

 

I kinda understand where she's coming from. OP, when you look in the mirror, do you sometimes get the feeling what you're seeing isn't really you? If that happens to you, it might explain some of your issues. It's that signals thing I was talking about....

[Dexter Morgan]

Is that a compliment...to be considered as attractive as hell?

 

Hell is usually not considered a good place. In fact, people usually say "you look like hell"...meaning you look awful.

 

LOL, yes, it was a compliment:)

[technicolor]

I think men can sense a woman who is lacking in confidence. If you seem like you're not confident in yourself, some guys can find this as a turn off and won't even bother chatting you up or getting to know you.