ZACKtheDEVIANTart Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 This up coming Sunday I'm hanging with this girl I really like and I was wondering what to do in two different situations: The first: If we hang out at her house what should I do? I am clueless. The second: If we go to the movies should I hold hands with her or put my arm around her? Also I should offer to pay, right? Thanks so much!!
Funkymonkey Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 Is it the first time you guys are hanging out? If it is, Don't do either. Swear to god don't hang out at her house. Movies are just lame, you'll be sitting beside each other watching a movie and not talking. I mean the point is to get to know the other person right? Take her out for something fun, get to know what she likes to do, take her rock climbing, bungee jumping whatever. Be creative!
4dviceJunki3 Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 Is it the first time you guys are hanging out? If it is, Don't do either. Swear to god don't hang out at her house. Movies are just lame, you'll be sitting beside each other watching a movie and not talking. I mean the point is to get to know the other person right? Take her out for something fun, get to know what she likes to do, take her rock climbing, bungee jumping whatever. Be creative! Funkymonkey is right, you need to go to a place with her where you guys could social with one another and ask questions. Movies is the probably the worst thing you can do on your first date UNLESS you do DINNER first and then MOVIES. If you want to get somewhere with this girl, DO NOT do the following: -Talk about your ex girlfriend or relationships -Hold her hand -Attempt to kiss her -Talk about sex -Drugs (LOL) -Religion -Politics You could however speak of the following topics: -Background -Family (think of funny stories you could tell to relate to the topic at hand) -Goals -School -Interests -Careers -Hobbies -Talent ...you get the point. Now, if you want to just sleep with this girl, well, flip the above list around and Do the DON'TS and DON'T do the DO's lol.
kashmir Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 If you want to get somewhere with this girl, DO NOT do the following: -Talk about your ex girlfriend or relationships -Hold her hand -Attempt to kiss her -Talk about sex -Drugs (LOL) -Religion -Politics I agree with the thing about doing something away from her house where you actually get to talk (not a movie). I also agree with the list above, EXCEPT for the things in bold. If you don't flirt with her or show anything physically, she'll either a) think you don't like her romantically and avoid you, b) lose interest because you won't make a move, or c) both. Trust me, it's happened to me a lot. You don't need to go for a kiss on the first date (unless you're confident that she'll accept), but you should show some kind of affection like putting your arm around her. The last few dates I went on I took the approach of getting to know her first and not doing anything too flirty or physical. The girls never accepted a second date, and now that I look back they were waiting for me to do SOMETHING. I won't hesitate again. You shouldn't either.
Author ZACKtheDEVIANTart Posted November 14, 2008 Author Posted November 14, 2008 Funkymonkey: There is only one problem with the part of being creative is that I am able to drive so I am limited on where I can go. If that gives you any different thoughts, let me know. Also we have hung out before once for a little at my school, but this is the first time we are hanging out alone with each other. 4dviceJunki3: The only problem with the dinner first part is that we are hanging out as early as possible to as late as possible so I don't know about how that would work. Unless of course you have any other ideas? kashmir: I agree with you 100% only for one reason, it's because i have seen this happen a couple of times now where i know that this girl likes this boy and vise versa, but he shows nothing, and nothing comes out of the two of them. P.S.-We aren't going out yet.
Author ZACKtheDEVIANTart Posted November 14, 2008 Author Posted November 14, 2008 I was talking to my friend the other day and she said that this girl was into me because she is willing to hang out with me alone. I need your thought on this to know if it is true or not. Thanks a lot again guys.
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