Lizzyb6938 Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 i've been posting on here for a little while. some of you may know my story. broken up with bf of 2.5 years. we still love one another just at turning stage of our lives. saw one another mon and had the best day ever, he wanted to get back together, i said we'd wait and see after he got back after his holiday. he left, wrote me lovely messages that arvo, and since been sending smiley faces on facebook. I decided to call this morning but I'm not sure if I should have. I woke him up, he sounded ok but just a bit sleepy. My phone was about to die so i asked him to call back later tonight and he said he would, but it would be late, after a meeting he has. I don't know he sounded a bit weird. I really don't think i should have called him. I want to suggest another meeting before he goes away just because we had such a wonderful time on monday but i'm not sure whether i should, particularly because he's so busy getting everything ready for his trip which he's leaving for monday. what do you think?
alphamale Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 what do you think? i think you should let sleeping dogs lie....take your time getting back together and make sure its something you want to do and that some substantial changes have been made in both of you (yea the ones that caused the breakup originally) unfortunately most of the time getting "back together" is not a good idea unless there is some deep fundamental change
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