ate_the_paint Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 I only have 4 weeks left in the small town my ex and I moved to together two years ago. I have my flight booked and I'm going back to the other side of the country to spend the holidays with my family, and then I'm flying off to Europe to work in the new year. My ex, who seven months ago cheated on me and broke my heart, has recently been trying to be my friend and act as if nothing is wrong (she's now living with the guy she had the affair with). She just can't seem to understand why I wouldn't want anything to do with her. Seriously, she can't get it through her head that what she did was wrong! Anyways, since she learned that I'm outta here soon she's suddenly become friendly and all emotional and saying things like "If you get into any trouble over there just give me a call". Ya right. I don't have any questions or anything; I just thought I would share an interesting update about a slightly sociopathic person.
kizik Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 Ignore, ignore, ignore. Sociopath is right. Sounds to me like she feels guilty, and wants to make amends to assuage said guilt. Best of luck in the EU!
CaliGuy Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 Bro, she doesn't want to be your friend for any other reason than she is selfish. She has a lot of nerve! What she wants is some need met by you (emotional) while she has other needs met by the new guy. If that isn't selfish I don't know what is. Don't respond. Don't give her the time of day. She doesn't deserve ANY of your time and you shouldn't bite at the "breadcrumbs" of attention she is throwing at you. Guilt may be convicting her. One thing is for sure, it is neither love or respect.
Sysyphus28 Posted November 13, 2008 Posted November 13, 2008 This girl SUCKS! She is living with her new B/F she dumped you fr and she wants to be your friend. WHAT a giant size A**hole this girl is. What are you/Who are you a robot with zero feelings? Some of these women(my ex included) are just awful. I moved to a town with my ex, we broke up, and she won't give me the time of day. F-her left and right. All I have left for her is contempt and pity. I wish I could shake being so angry but it helps me remember what she did and how she acted. It is so disappointing when someone you trust betrays you.
Author ate_the_paint Posted November 13, 2008 Author Posted November 13, 2008 Haha, thanks guys. My reaction is about the same as what everyone has said so far. I'm not even sad about it; instead I'm looking forward to landing in eastern Europe and seeing the things I've always wanted to see. Her behaviour is simply amazing. It really is!
trueblue72ny Posted November 14, 2008 Posted November 14, 2008 That is slightly messed up. I keep thinking why would she even bother, then I read Cali guys post and it makes sense. I wouldnt bother with her either. So long!!! Nice knowing ya!!! Now she is the other guys problem and he doesnt even know it - yet.
sumdude Posted November 14, 2008 Posted November 14, 2008 Haha, thanks guys. My reaction is about the same as what everyone has said so far. I'm not even sad about it; instead I'm looking forward to landing in eastern Europe and seeing the things I've always wanted to see. Her behaviour is simply amazing. It really is! Just think about those gorgeous eastern European women you're going to meet. They love north americans and guys with good jobs. They also have a totally different view of relationships than western girls, very refreshing.
BackonTrack2 Posted November 14, 2008 Posted November 14, 2008 Her behavior is not amazing, people like that don't have decency. She only does what you let her do. Why does she even think she can contact you? It should be clear that she's not welcomed in your life.
gd26 Posted November 15, 2008 Posted November 15, 2008 Just think about those gorgeous eastern European women you're going to meet. They love north americans and guys with good jobs. They also have a totally different view of relationships than western girls, very refreshing. I'm very curious so I must ask... what do you mean by a totally different view? How do European girls view relationships differently? (not to start another discussion on this thread, I was just curious for a clarification)
carhill Posted November 15, 2008 Posted November 15, 2008 Don't know about the "girls", but the women I met were very strong-minded (by necessity) but yet very feminine and physically and emotionally made a man feel like a man. It was just how they touched you and looked at you and interacted with you. I also found the men I met to be a lot more open emotionally. Loved eastern Europe (Ukraine and Russia in particular) Hope the OP has a great time
sumdude Posted November 15, 2008 Posted November 15, 2008 Don't know about the "girls", but the women I met were very strong-minded (by necessity) but yet very feminine and physically and emotionally made a man feel like a man. It was just how they touched you and looked at you and interacted with you. I also found the men I met to be a lot more open emotionally. Loved eastern Europe (Ukraine and Russia in particular) Hope the OP has a great time That about sums it up.. and I may be slightly biased coming from an eastern European immigrant family.
Author ate_the_paint Posted November 16, 2008 Author Posted November 16, 2008 Haha, then it should be fun in the former Soviet Union! Actually, I don't mind at all if we change the topic to this new one! lol
Author ate_the_paint Posted September 4, 2009 Author Posted September 4, 2009 Was just reading some old posts and it's amazing how things change! As an update, I haven't had any contact from her since last year. She sent me an email in January but I deleted it without reading it. Because of the recession I didn't get that job in Russia in January; instead I start it in 2 weeks! lol I have a Russian visa in my passport and my flight is booked and I am straining at the leash to go.
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