suffering through NC ....

[pniggy12]

So my mind is running a muck today i haven't tried to contact her in 4 days even then she never replied .. it's tough i work in a high rise down town and she's 6 floors up ( yes same company )

 

it's killing me to not call or email her i know i shouldn't but i need some advice on how to controll my brain it's starting to build pressure i was hungry an hour ago and now the thought of food sickens me ..

 

I barely know this girl yet i can't get her off my mind , i'm starting to get very vivd thoughts that now she's dating one of my friends from work and i have no proof ... the logical side of my brain is losing the battle today

[ThomasX]

omg dude you and me have a crazy thing in coincidence-- it's been 4 days since I cut my ex off! I txt her 4 nights ago while going through a very tough moment, and she never replied-- so we have that in common too. It's funny how some people are going through the same things as you, at the same times as you.

 

Her and me dated 10 months though and knew eachother for about a year.

 

I'm kind of just hoping that by knowing I am going through the same thing as you, that maybe it will be a little easier on you.

[pniggy12]

Thanks Thomas i'm sure there are even more just like us

 

My advice to you and if i can take it my self is just don't try to contact this person

 

 

 

i am constantly searching for distraction but can't find much ...

[CaliGuy]

Go read my thread in coping about my "Drive by" ex. She tried to contact me the other day (after a couple months of no contact) insisting on a friendship. Not because she cares about me, not because she ever really was my friend.

 

She is simply selfish. She wants something emotional that I offered her that is not being met by her new boyfriend. Oh well, tough!

 

It sucks working with an ex, but if you stick to NC (and your guns) it will re-empower you. You don't need her, you just want her. You're hurting and that's to be expected but this whole experience is going to make you a better person if you stick to NC and heal up.

 

Trust me, one day you'll see her walking around and think to yourself "What the h*ll was I thinking???"

 

(I know I do, every day! )

[pniggy12]

Thanks Caliguy

 

I ready both your Drive by post and the NC for newbies i agree completely i have removed her from my facebook and deleted her # from my phone she will probably call me imature oh well

[Vince Black]

pniggy12

 

I will say a prayer that you stay strong

 

its hard but it gets better

 

and don't mind yourself whether or not she thinks you are immature

...you are doing the right thing....you are heading down the right path