Ex's Mother Jealousy

[CabrioCutie]

Here’s my dilemma (sorry its so lengthy). I’ve been dating a guy since March 2008. It’s a LDR but we see each other every 2 months. We’re in CONSTANT contact. From the moment we wake up we’re texting each other to the time I go to sleep (we have a 3 hour time difference) When we’re not texting, we’re IMing on the computer or talking on the phone. I wouldn’t want to give it up for any local relationship. Here’s my issue. He was in a relationship that ended 2 1/2 years ago but the relationship lasted 6 years. He no longer speaks to the ex but he does speak to the ex’s sister (she’s become a sister to him) and the ex’s mother. He tells me that he does speak to them often so he’s not hiding that. Now I know what I’m about to type isn’t fair but I’ve been badly betrayed when I was younger and him and I actually broke up for a month mid-summer bc he thought things might work out with the ex. He quickly realized dumb move and left her to come back to me (I’m a sucker, took him back after a few weeks)……. I have his email password. I recently went on and see an email from the ex’s mother. The mother is emailing him telling him how she misses him and still sees him being with her daughter in the future when he comes back. (He will be moving back home in 2 years) And the mother is WELL AWARE of our relationship. I went nuts inside after reading it but calmed down after reading his response to her. And even calmer and happier when I woke up to text of him telling me he loves me for the first time. (He has no clue I can see his emails so he thinks I know nothing of it) It’s only occasionally but I would like to completely stop checking his emails but am having SUCH a hard time dealing with the ex’s mother but can’t tell him that. Is there any way to get her OUT of the picture? I know there’s history and she was extremely good to him during that time but IM HERE NOW. He does tell me he’s moving in with me when he moves back home but how can I handle this woman??? The jealousy is making it hard for me to completely trust him and I really want to

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Send her an email and tell her what a fabulous job she did in raising her son. And mean it!