MissingMyHubby Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 Gf and I have been dating a few months. She just moved across the country for a job. I have plans to move out there to be with her in a couple months. I have been sending her emails, texts, pictures, and calling every night so she feels comfortable. She also worries I will not miss her, but thats another ball of wax.... Tonight I went to a movie with a friend. She knew I was going to it. She texts me saying "hey" and I say "im in a movie babe". she texts me again saying she doesnt think they are going to pay her what she thought she was going to get paid. i text her a few more times throughout the movie. My final text I say hey babe, im out drinking right now, im not staying out late, so i will call you when i leave. muah!" (she is 2 time zones behind me too.) i get a text saying "thanks for calling to talk to me about my drama babe. much appreciated! im glad drinking is more important than a 5 minute convo with me. i got it all figured out, its cool." i called her at 930pm, her local time. she didnt answer. i told her i wished to wait to talk because i knew it wouldnt be a "5 minute convo" and i wouldnt be distracted if i would have waited until i left my friend. of course im the jerk. am i a jerk? or is she being too needy? i try to not be a slave to my phone when im out with friend(s) because it is rude. when i am done with them is when i make calls. i usually DO throw in texts (like i did in a MOVIE) even though i would rather wait. ugh
Green Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 When I'm in a movie I don't even look at my txts. You need to take some control, seriously don't let all this upset you or controll your life. Why would you move for her, I think it should be the other way around unless she lives in some awsome place or is going to pay for sht cause her job is so awsome
Author MissingMyHubby Posted November 12, 2008 Author Posted November 12, 2008 she lives on a dog shelter ranch for free and i would be able to go there too. we were dating for 4 months and just last week she left for this job. she took it because i told her i would go, but now im having some doubts but will try to see how much i do miss her. right now, its not a whole lot
Green Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 she lives on a dog shelter ranch for free and i would be able to go there too. we were dating for 4 months and just last week she left for this job. she took it because i told her i would go, but now im having some doubts but will try to see how much i do miss her. right now, its not a whole lot How can you miss her she calls and throw tantrums non stop and then doesnt answer when you call. Who wants to live on a dog shelter ranch
beautifulearth83 Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 Seriously she's not giving you much of a chance to miss her. Stupid phones.
officegirl Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 Before we all jump to conclusions. Is this an isolated incident? Has she shown this type of behavior before? If yes, ewww. If no, maybe she's having some difficulty adjusting.
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