Trialbyfire Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 Thats where Im going if you want to get away from the world While it's beautiful and peaceful in a traditional way, it doesn't exactly look warm and inviting.
burning 4 revenge Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 While it's beautiful and peaceful in a traditional way, it doesn't exactly look warm and inviting.you could make it warm and inviting....
Trialbyfire Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 you could make it warm and inviting.... Sure, I recommend warm earth tones, plenty of rugs and spring flowers. Many, many heaters too or at min., central heating.
Citizen Erased Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 Sure, I recommend warm earth tones, plenty of rugs and spring flowers. Many, many heaters too or at min., central heating. Well that won't work for Johan, he's not big on central heating if I recall. Think you're on your own b4r.
Trialbyfire Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 Well that won't work for Johan, he's not big on central heating if I recall. Think you're on your own b4r. Maybe some thick woolen or alpaca tapestries, to stop the cold air from whistling in. What do you think?
Storyrider Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 I know how you feel, Johan. I was just thinking the same thing while sitting at the dinner table tonight. I feel topped out with having to do things I wouldn't choose for myself, just out of obligation. For my kids, I'm willing to do that because they need me. But my husband was working out flight details so we can go down to Texas and stay with my in-laws over the Christmas holidays. I feel so depressed and pissed off about having to go. I probably would only have to spend about three days there because he and the kids will drive and I'll get to fly, yet it seems intolerable. I tried to think of a really good reason and all I can come up with is I just don't want to be there. I don't like my mother-in-law and I don't like the way my husband acts around his dad. He becomes GG-rated and really repressed. Also I have to watch my kids constantly at their house because it is full of breakable and untouchable things. My therapist said I just should go off on my own if that's what I want to do, go up to Austin and hang out with my brother and my old friends, which I would actually enjoy and would be relaxing instead of stressful. But my kids will be disappointed if I'm not around, and wonder why family vacations seem to happen more and more without me. Thanks for letting me rant on your self improvement and personal well-being thread.
burning 4 revenge Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 I know how you feel, Johan. I was just thinking the same thing while sitting at the dinner table tonight. I feel topped out with having to do things I wouldn't choose for myself, just out of obligation. For my kids, I'm willing to do that because they need me. But my husband was working out flight details so we can go down to Texas and stay with my in-laws over the Christmas holidays. I feel so depressed and pissed off about having to go. I probably would only have to spend about three days there because he and the kids will drive and I'll get to fly, yet it seems intolerable. I tried to think of a really good reason and all I can come up with is I just don't want to be there. I don't like my mother-in-law and I don't like the way my husband acts around his dad. He becomes GG-rated and really repressed. Also I have to watch my kids constantly at their house because it is full of breakable and untouchable things. My therapist said I just should go off on my own if that's what I want to do, go up to Austin and hang out with my brother and my old friends, which I would actually enjoy and would be relaxing instead of stressful. But my kids will be disappointed if I'm not around, and wonder why family vacations seem to happen more and more without me. Thanks for letting me rant on your self improvement and personal well-being thread. Come with us to Take with you kids with you to your borthers Problem solved
amaysngrace Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 I know how you feel, Johan. I was just thinking the same thing while sitting at the dinner table tonight. I feel topped out with having to do things I wouldn't choose for myself, just out of obligation. For my kids, I'm willing to do that because they need me. But my husband was working out flight details so we can go down to Texas and stay with my in-laws over the Christmas holidays. I feel so depressed and pissed off about having to go. I probably would only have to spend about three days there because he and the kids will drive and I'll get to fly, yet it seems intolerable. I tried to think of a really good reason and all I can come up with is I just don't want to be there. I don't like my mother-in-law and I don't like the way my husband acts around his dad. He becomes GG-rated and really repressed. Also I have to watch my kids constantly at their house because it is full of breakable and untouchable things. My therapist said I just should go off on my own if that's what I want to do, go up to Austin and hang out with my brother and my old friends, which I would actually enjoy and would be relaxing instead of stressful. But my kids will be disappointed if I'm not around, and wonder why family vacations seem to happen more and more without me. Thanks for letting me rant on your self improvement and personal well-being thread. That drained me and I only read it. poor story
amaysngrace Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 Come with us to Take with you kids with you to your borthers Problem solved ya think??
burning 4 revenge Posted November 12, 2008 Posted November 12, 2008 Before my sentence got mangled pre-editing I was going to ask why not take your kids to your brothers
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